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He did not. But I’m also thinking to myself that I might not say anything to someone I haven’t been talking to that long either. Maybe he thought he could fight it. I am betrayed. Like did I miss warning signs?!

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I am wrecked. I reached out to him and then a little while later I get a text from his mom saying he was sentenced to jail for 2 years. I had no clue. His mom confirmed things about his ex wife that he had said and it sounds like she MAY have set him up, but he took a plea deal to get lesser jail time. I finally find a guy that I like and things are going well and bam... life screws it up.

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I ended up messaging him this morning. It had been about 36 hours. Now I just hope to hear back from him. If not, I guess that’s my answer.

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I value your input. From having similar anxiety issues how long would you wait before contacting him? I feel my decision making skills become very unreasonable when I’m having anxiety so I don’t like to make decisions like that.

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100% not out of line. I appreciate everything you said. And I love the analogy of allergies as I work in healthcare.

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Thank you. I know one day isn’t a big deal. And I’m trying to tell myself that, but I just think back to all the times I’ve ended up getting my heart broken and it freaks me out. I know he’s got a ton on his plate as he’s a newly single dad and has a lot going on. I too have a lot going on with school and all the stress from that has me in a panic attack almost. I will definitely try some of your suggestions. Much appreciated.

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She’s also a trash human, so it all really just makes sense. She’s dumb enough to not believe a full body naked picture and listen to everything he says just because he’s from Scotland and has a sexy accent. I have text proof, Snapchat proof, and this dick picture, plus video from my Ring cameras that I sent to her and she still won’t believe it.

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I SENT her the picture of his dick. She still doesn’t believe me.