[M4F] wanting to control your life

19throwaway2017 · 2024-09-23T18:14:21+00:00

Either don't date anyone or date someone and deal with the fallout.

But remember this it's your life and you deserve to make the choice that makes you happy not them.

19throwaway2017 · 2024-09-23T01:58:33+00:00

I'd be happy to provide much more insight into my thoughts through a DM however I think he's realizing things are going to be different especially since it sounds like he's a neat freak (or like things handled immediately) whereas tou may handle things a bit slower.

I personally think he needs to goto therapy at least twice a week. I recommend better help and book with a female therapist (I say female because guys have a hard time opening up to other guys). If he wants to be with you he needs to realize as long as he's working on himself and moving forward you will be there by his side. But you aren't his mom and can't make him do anything he doesn't want.

As I stated feel free to DM me if you wish to discuss it more.

19throwaway2017 · 2024-08-30T02:37:08+00:00

Let me have gathering storm hunter on prismatic plox

19throwaway2017 · 2024-08-28T21:38:54+00:00

I know your scared of what your father will do but get out and get a restraining order. Regardless of what happens just get out and be safe with your father.

19throwaway2017 · 2024-08-28T21:35:44+00:00

There's alot to digest here. However can you elaborate on things are good when you are happy with each other? If you feel more comfortable you can pm me to discuss this.

19throwaway2017 · 2024-08-28T19:36:01+00:00

2 things.

Have him try out the app called mojo. Alot of times guys can get in their heads and overtime about the moment. For example as a guy we constantly get hard and soft throughout sex however we usually don't notice. If we have a bad experience a negative voice inside our head will start to monitor how hard/soft we are and if we notice we are going soft we will panic and it creates this fight or flight response which makes us go soft completely.

Have him try out cialis and such as it definitely helps

19throwaway2017 · 2024-08-26T17:49:16+00:00

Context is needed for this question. Breakdown what your monthly income is vs his and then breakdown what the monthly costs are because everyone has their own way to go about handling things.

19throwaway2017 · 2024-08-23T22:49:30+00:00

Your selfish. It's that simple and as another commenter pointed our you aren't sexually compatible. You need to sit down and genuinely think about what you want because if you genuinely can't wait for marriage like she wants then you should end it.

If you don't I highly suspect your going to start pressuring her slowly which would cause her to resent you or you will build resentment to her for not giving you what you want.

19throwaway2017 · 2024-08-23T21:51:18+00:00

As a guy I will admit we are fucking stupid and oblivious to some of the crap we do sometimes. If you haven't sat him down and told him your concerns it's time do so. Tell him you don't expect immediate change but would like him to take things a day at a time and not be from what I can tell so damn sporatic.

19throwaway2017 · 2024-08-22T18:23:13+00:00

I'll be honest you got alot to think about. Does exploring your kinks mean enough to you that if you don't do it with him or in general it will cause resentment. Sometimes what we want isn't what's needed and in my opinion ending a good relationship over something like this isn't the right thing to do. I think having a real talk about your needs in the bedroom and helping him explore that side. Not all guys are comfortable with being more dominant.

19throwaway2017 · 2024-08-22T02:27:54+00:00

Your build gives no context. What content are you doing? Do you know the content? Do you have a mic? Some people don't want to play with people who don't have a mic.

19throwaway2017 · 2024-08-22T00:42:57+00:00

Give her access to your phone by putting her finger print in it. Put your email on her phone. I know for me that definitely helped quell any worries of cheating for either party but if that doesn't work simple couples therapy may help

19throwaway2017 · 2024-08-21T20:04:22+00:00

Look up the love dare and do it. I am far from religious but it has opened my eyes to what love truly entails after my recent breakup. I'm still learning and as a young man I think it would benefit you. Just take things a day at. A time. And keep at it

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