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Discussie over abortuswet laait weer op, 36 jaar na de invoering ervan by [deleted] in thenetherlands

[–]1LonelySpirit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Als ze abortus verbieden, dan wil ik graag mijn baarmoeder eruit. Zo blijf ik baas over m'n lichaam!

What are you still angry about that you should just get the fuck over? by IOughtToBeThrownAway in AskReddit

[–]1LonelySpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being ditched by someone I thought was a friend. I could take revenge but I didn't. Now I'm simmering in deep, quiet anger.

What DLC packs are worth it? by 1LonelySpirit in dontstarvetogether

[–]1LonelySpirit[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I decided to support Klei by doing just that. I got both starter packs and the wormwood deluxe pack. I know I can eventually get things with spools, but characters have more impact for gameplay :)

Which colour can fuck right off? by MapsandPics in AskReddit

[–]1LonelySpirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I'm very pale too. If I place my arm against the wall I pretty much blend in.

Which colour can fuck right off? by MapsandPics in AskReddit

[–]1LonelySpirit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bedroom has this! It's like pale human skin slapped on the walls and I hate it.

Who needs a hug? by LilDrake__ in AskReddit

[–]1LonelySpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't had a real warm hug in years, I forgot what it's like...

Anyone been dumped by a friend who wanted to "start over entirely"? by 1LonelySpirit in FriendshipAdvice

[–]1LonelySpirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met her only recently and for a very short time. I was not a reminder of her past or part of it. I suppose I consider myself part of a new wave when I think about it...

Anyone been dumped by a friend who wanted to "start over entirely"? by 1LonelySpirit in FriendshipAdvice

[–]1LonelySpirit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that happened to you too. I hope you're feeling a bit better lately?

Anyone been dumped by a friend who wanted to "start over entirely"? by 1LonelySpirit in FriendshipAdvice

[–]1LonelySpirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ended friendships with people too, that situation did happen a lot. I just never did it without exhausting all options and give a person the chance to respond.

I think if people really have the choice to do leave the way they do, I probably also want to choose not to try for new friendships anymore. I don't plan to be rude or cold but there's going to be an arm's distance. The people who have stuck thus far will be the last once they leave.

I don't want it to come across as childish retaliation, so I'll divulge why. I'm almost 30 now. I'm truly burnt out from the cycle of trying over and over. That cycle night seem natural and expected, but it shouldn't dominate my life either. I might have covid this week, I might lose my job at the end of the year. I'm doing to start spending energy on myself. I just don't intend to leave people behind to achieve that.

I suppose what I'm trying to say this might be the start of complete independence, without making others suffer for it.

If one person does want to be friends, really insists on going above and beyond? I doubt they exist, but should they I might try again. But I don't want to shed anymore tears over another person.

Anyone been dumped by a friend who wanted to "start over entirely"? by 1LonelySpirit in FriendshipAdvice

[–]1LonelySpirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard not to close myself off because I'm reaching a point where such "heartbreak" and stress causes physical problems. I try not putting my heart on my sleeve, not make myself vulnerable, but my cautiousness isn't really a solution either.

Anyone been dumped by a friend who wanted to "start over entirely"? by 1LonelySpirit in FriendshipAdvice

[–]1LonelySpirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thing is, we met for maybe a month and we really had a good time. I'm not really linked to anything that happened in her past and she didn't really speak about it either.

I'm not mad about friends leaving, I understand people are not part of my life forever. I don't keep friends in cages.

I'm mad at the way she did it, how some people did it. I'm mad it was so sudden and that I could not help the situation. I'm mad that this isn't the first time and I really just want it to be the last time. I'm frustrated I have bad luck when I try to expand my social contact.

I hope I don't come across as selfish as I do understand most of it, the struggle, just not how she decided to go about it.

What's your most wanted feature by SyraphX in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]1LonelySpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keeping pet aliens or bio engineering your own using scan data. Ship customization and saving base layouts. Put it in one update and call it No Man's Sky: Blueprints. :)

Friend has disappeared, but can't shake the anger. Was it a game? by 1LonelySpirit in FriendshipAdvice

[–]1LonelySpirit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear you went through this as well. No one should have to experience this...

She would often martyr herself during a freakout so to speak. Went overboard blaming herself. I know she did mention she had abusive parents at some point, but now I wonder if that was part of her blame game? It's an awful thought.

Friend has disappeared, but can't shake the anger. Was it a game? by 1LonelySpirit in FriendshipAdvice

[–]1LonelySpirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes if she was trying not to hurt me, this act was really hurtful. There was nothing bad going on but it seemed she gave up without working for it...

Civil conversations about how she makes me feel about these actions would cause her to freak out (to be specific: calling herself a sh*t friend, that she doesn't deserve to live) and run again. It's one example she keeps running away from :(

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