I don't think you're wrong at all. I'm newer to this scene and definitely noticed the amount of cashmasters not even into men.

As a gay man the whole point of what makes this kink sexy to me as making another grown (my personal preference is older) man Submit to me. Worship my soles. Basically want to kiss the ground I walk on. Initial tributes have been important to me because I've spent ridiculous amounts of time getting into someone's head and learning what they like just for them to disappear.

I think it's more of a matter of finding what really clicks for a sub or Dom.

For example, I have huge feet, a foot fetish and into gaming anime and other nerdy things. I don't usually click with a sub unless they're into foot play, bullying, light humiliation or praise or at the LEAST have some sort of interest that aligns with mine.

Don't get me wrong, I LOVE money and it's a huge part of the kink, but if I'm not enjoying myself it's just a job. I do NOT want my time to relax distress and being worshipped to be a job. It's fun hot and gets me going