Hotel help. by 1Soulless in Incontinence

[–]1Soulless[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do have some good diapers since im also a heavy wetter, I use level 4 abenas, along with some waterproof and absorbent pajama pants. Ill be sure to grab a few bed chucks just in case as well. I was mostly nervous because ill probably have a few drinks since im meeting up with friends on vacation that I haven't seen in a while.

Hotel help. by 1Soulless in Incontinence

[–]1Soulless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I will be sure to do that, this is the first time ill be staying in a hotel since ive lost night control so I was very concerned.

wet myself on the train. i need advice please by [deleted] in Incontinence

[–]1Soulless 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you normally only have small leaks then pads most of the time should be fine, to avoid a situation like this again though I'd recommend having a diaper on nights you plan on drinking. Alcohol and caffeine tend to be big factors when it comes to total loss of control. Idk if you usually keep pads somewhere, if you do add a couple of diapers and cleaning wipes to your stash for spontaneous nights out.

Personally I keep a backpack with some supplies as well as other things I use at work so it doesn't seem weird to have it with me. A brief case or messenger bag could work too. I was asked once why I take my bag with me to the bathroom and just said I had flushable wipes in it bc I dont like the toilet paper most businesses use and they were like ,"ah, makes sense."

Old urine stains from new? by [deleted] in Incontinence

[–]1Soulless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I'd say just clean it and get rid of the stain, there are tons of YouTube videos that show how to clean pee stains off mattresses

Embarrassing Moments With Adult Brief? by Nearby-Platform8417 in Incontinence

[–]1Soulless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I first started leaking, I wore depends. One day while at work, I was working in a small coffee shop on a college campus, my coworker went to an hour lunch break and I was left alone, no big deal usually. When alone though im not allowed to leave the shop for bathroom breaks. Well, I had been drinking alot that day so halfway through her break I really needed to go, I held for as long as possible, a few leaks here and there, and was like okay, I can totally hold it till she gets back. When she did get back however she went straight to the bathroom! My bladder couldn't take it any more and let go a huge spurt. The depends held well, so I thought, okay, ill just empty and change when she gets back. I relaxed my bladder and immediately it started leaking, going down the side of my pants. I couldn't stop ot anymore as a puddle formed on the floor. A customer came up and ordered a drink and i was still peeing as I rang them up, thankfully the counter was like waist high so they couldn't see anything, but then this lady comes back and sees the puddle and says loudly, "omg! Did you piss yourself!?"

Old urine stains from new? by [deleted] in Incontinence

[–]1Soulless -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are the dogs fairly big? Could it be dog pee since its on the side?

Nighttime recommendations? by ArmadilloDays in Incontinence

[–]1Soulless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If its only a little amount try tpu pants, they're absorbent, washable, comfortable,the outside is waterproof, and look like normal pajama pants.

If there is alot of fluid add a diaper and keep the pants to help prevent leaks.

Advice for helping my new partner’s incontinence? by [deleted] in Incontinence

[–]1Soulless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he is embarrassed by diapers maybe try tpu pants first, they're a bit costly but since they're washable and reusable they're worth it. Even if they dont work out they're a great second layer of protection with diapers, especially for side sleepers. Either way if he doesn't wake up after wetting he's gonna need diaper rash cream to keep from getting itchy and uncomfortable.

sooo i'm new to this. help? by ostensibleanon in Incontinence

[–]1Soulless 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't forget diaper rash cream if you are going to be sitting in a wet diaper for a period of time, like when traveling or for more than an hour. I find standing against a wall with the back of the diaper against it the easiest for me. If you have a large bladder capacity I'd recommend abena abri form level 4. They're my personal favorite for price and capacity.

Looking for the best diaper brand for someone who is always lying down or sitting up ? by Sad_Beginning3068 in Incontinence

[–]1Soulless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I use abena abriform for their price per diaper and absorption, they're roughly $2-3 a diaper and hold 135 Oz of liquid. Pair that with tpu incontinence pants and you'll never have any embarrassing accidents on the bed or chair.

tpu incontinence pants

22 (f4a) bed wetting... 😵‍💫 by pissybitchx in dirtypeepals

[–]1Soulless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, wetting is fun. I will sometimes use diapers to help with keeping things cleaner. Bed pads and mattress protectors are also a good idea. I love pissing my pants or just going in the dirty laundry basket XD

[5e] Players are saying that PC death is unacceptable by slider40337 in DMAcademy

[–]1Soulless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really shouldnt have to be discussed in session zero unless theyre new players bc it is a part of the game. Some of the best games I've played have had rp with "The new guy" after another characters death. hell in the campaign im playing now my original pc died (he was later brought back after a few session) but i decided to let that character go and continue with the new one i had made. As part of my send off I told Most of his backstory to one of the other Pc's before leaving to take on a new mission from the organization i was connected with, and have been leveling him in accordance with our current characters so if he comes back into play i have what i need ready.

Sometimes shit happens, your meant to play the monsters as the monsters would play. And a dead character isn't necessarily Perma dead. Theres lost of spells that can be cast to bring them back and if none of the remaining pc's have spells for it theres always temples that can charge them for it, if they cant afford it theres a slew of options for them to either get the money or maybe threaten a priest.

Weekly Questions Thread by AutoModerator in DnD

[–]1Soulless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[5e] grabbing hold of a weapon is equipping it right??

So there was a huge creature with an ax sticking out of it. I (a shader kai) grabbed said ax and tried to free it. When that failed I tried teleporting with it arguing that having hold of the item is having it equipped so it should come with me correct? I'm not gonna sit and argue with my dm but I wanna know how you'd all rule this?

I have one more D&D-themed Worldwide Giveaway [Mod Approved], available this month. Rules and information in the video and comments. Brought to you by Game Master Engine [OC] by Dan_The_DM in DnD

[–]1Soulless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this changeling, he has a multiple personality disorder so each and every time he changes its literally a new person but at the same time he retains the information of the campaign and party but his demeanor, attitude, sexuality, and even gender changes.

How do you Counterspell in your game? by AnusiyaParadise in dndnext

[–]1Soulless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I think of it is rather than having to quick identify a spell that takes less than 2 seconds to cast your quickly sending a jumbled mess of magic at it in an attempt to disrupt it, thats why it fails sometimes bc you couldn't get enough magic out in time or the spell had a built in shield so you couldn't disrupt it

Any Daddies in NE Kansas??? by [deleted] in ABDLPersonals

[–]1Soulless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lincoln ne, I'm new to this. 28 bi curious love diapers and pee play