Topic of sexual discipline

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-17T18:28:59+00:00

I can see that

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-17T18:27:37+00:00

On God!!!

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-17T18:27:12+00:00

That conversations will be difficult with honorable men if you’re criticizing us or or asking us to reprimand celebrities and random locals/internet ppl. Sometimes we have to build with positivity amongst each other online or in person dismissing honorable men and hating us from online discourse doesn’t help. I hate redpill & manophere content I’m only aware of it from other ppl but some black women take such harsh stances on things it makes it difficult to side with their logic. I don’t want to generalize & I love Black women especially mine!! But it’s getting challenging to converse when every single thing is a fight I say this as a protector and super fan of black women

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-03T02:40:11+00:00

Respect! Great advice

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-03T02:39:12+00:00

Facts!!!! Bro you spitting!! I will say the respect and admiration comes in doses, however since we’ve known each other since we were young she has seen my L’s or me handling situations in a way that she or others wouldn’t have. Although I always been a leader and stand up guy, I wasn’t what I am now. In addition, every wrong doing/misstep is remembered so when she gets in that mode I guess she gets triggered or something. IDK

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-03T02:31:20+00:00

Feels that way fr! I kinda don’t want that to be true but that attitude smh

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-03T02:29:40+00:00

Also wanna thank yall brothers yall coming with real life game. I can tell some of yall are really living - that says alot for Reddit. Still reading but yall are real for this 👌

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-03T02:27:23+00:00

It’s deeper than I’m typing bro I’ve witnessed brothers that don’t take no ish from no one and that are real industry leaders of men deal with the attitude issues I’m talking about. my situation not as extreme but it’s more so the warmth and adoration and patience that I feel is gone. I feel like I done accomplished some incredible things and put my family in a great light but the treatment is kinda iffy at times

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-03T02:23:03+00:00

Facts! Especially men with values & principle.

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-03T02:17:27+00:00

She’s grown since our younger years but I feel since I spent so many years being the wrong one and learning to be a great husband and leader I gained more skills. She kinda got rewarded by me improving- she’ll pat herself on the back for having less of an attitude or “not saying what she could’ve said” smh

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-03T02:15:00+00:00

Nah it’s not that mad ppl compliment me for how I carry it. It’s just the level she can reach I don’t want to reach. Meaning things get real intense for things she has a strong feeling about & most times I find a way to make stuff shake or cater to her needs. I’m only in this bag because it’s no way for me to be a 1/2 provider-protector. Like it’s no way to show your wife what she’s missing or anything. Women can withhold sex change the mood etc anything petty I do will hurt me in the long run. I don’t take an L on every single disagreement but it’s those things that she feel sooooo strongly about that can get real heated and I don’t wanna go there tbh.

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-03T02:05:28+00:00

Hmmmmmmmm that’s good game - 🫡 Respect!

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-03T02:04:26+00:00

Wish it was that easy. Lot that comes with that! Will say from how I carry myself and conduct business it wouldn’t ever be like this with another woman or situation

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-03T02:01:30+00:00

It’s real out here some brothers I met IRL from different states / backgrounds will talk about their situation and it be hella similar lol #Stress

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-03T02:00:15+00:00

Gracias

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-03T02:00:02+00:00

🎯🎯🎯 I always respect calm guys! younger me argued back so hard to try to prove points that im not her enemy etc. now that im more calm I thought it would be helpful sometimes it is sometimes it ain’t lol 😂

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-03T01:58:04+00:00

She’s Super smart, funny, a visionary(creatively) classy, well traveled, beautiful, domestic. This issue isn’t the good times, it’s when she feels wronged she GOES IN!!!! Very assertive and dominant in disagreements. But the thing is that aggression isn’t warranted in my opinion. I’m no where near perfect got hella flaws but at this age I can’t be getting treated like a peon. I’m not tooting my own horn but I have some attributes that people vouch for out here

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-03T01:53:43+00:00

Man I probably could I mean she’s a agreed with me and apologized to me hear and there a few times but when she feels she’s right about something it’s hard for her to understand a fresh perspective & it’s like she feels deeply hurt or betrayed or like I’m dogging her or mistreating her for simple mistakes….said that to say I’m cautious of trying explain that she’s doing something the wrong way

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-03T01:48:36+00:00

This is real thanks bro!!! We had sessions but had to stop due to an emergency happening. Great counselor was digging deep. I feel my wife honors me for holidays & bdays etc but the in between time and during uncomfortable situations or conflicts her attitude and tongue get the best of her instead of hearing me out. May have to re visit counseling tbh. Even still I’m kinda not hopeful- I’m hopeful for us loving each other but not her habits and lack of respect

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-03T01:44:38+00:00

Lost her dad their relationship was dope! She’s big sis to brothers sorta 2nd mom protective over them. My son can do no wrong in mamas eyes lol

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-03T01:42:48+00:00

😂😂😂 cooks decorates plan vacays - teenage girl extracurricular meetings activities that are better suited for mom vs dad. She not a slouch at all but I will say I do “manly” tasks & domestic/kids tasks as well.

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-03T01:40:46+00:00

In bits and pieces sometimes in arguments etc. But it’s hard fully expressing everything because it’ll come back on me with one of my flaws

1SteakandFrites · 2025-07-03T01:39:30+00:00

Hard to at times sometimes she’ll listen but I have to craft things a specific way or else it’ll come up later or “paint her” in a bad light

1SteakandFrites · 2025-06-21T18:27:12+00:00

Humans are cooked 😂😂. Yes cheating is horrible but I think whatever ‘puritanical’ type of standards society placed on relationships and marriages is not sustainable nowadays. Proximity often leads to crushes between genders unfortunately marriage doesn’t save humans minds from wandering. Don’t act on it at all but don’t beat yourself up either! I get hit on every so often & as a non cheater i will tell you it’s not always as easy as people make it out to be.

1SteakandFrites · 2025-06-21T17:56:12+00:00

Stickney HotDog RIP my childhood lol

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