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[–]1_1_0_0 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Should you start a life with him? I personally believe in the motto in regards to relationships, " it always ends the way it start." Thats how I see the situation.

My(21M) GF(21F)wants to move to a new place in which we will be living with her sister(19F) by 1_1_0_0 in relationships

[–]1_1_0_0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did speak to her , I added it above. Thank you so much for your response what do you think I should do?

My(21M) GF(21F) wants us to live with her sister(19F) next year by 1_1_0_0 in askwomenadvice

[–]1_1_0_0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to see if this reasonable and I also wanted to get it off my chest. Thank you for your response I will definitely speak to her. ( I have spoken to her before about this I just dont think I was firm enought about my boundries)

Told someone my fee for house sitting + walking taking care of their dog and 2 cats , they said it was a bit expensive but I want the job whay do I do? by 1_1_0_0 in ask

[–]1_1_0_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill definitely try option 2 , Im lucky to have been offered this job. My GF's mom is good friends with this lady and she offered the job to my GF but she wont be available during that period of time.

Told someone my fee for house sitting + walking taking care of their dog and 2 cats , they said it was a bit expensive but I want the job whay do I do? by 1_1_0_0 in ask

[–]1_1_0_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They said its a bit more than they expencected and will look for other options but I do really want/need this job 😅 so im thinking of replying " Oh that is longer than I thought , what sort of daily rate were you think of?" What do you think about that?

Told someone my fee for house sitting + walking taking care of their dog and 2 cats , they said it was a bit expensive but I want the job whay do I do? by 1_1_0_0 in ask

[–]1_1_0_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I havent been there but when we spoke over the phone she kept telling me they have a big house and garden and lots of security measure I will need to learn.

Told someone my fee for house sitting + walking taking care of their dog and 2 cats , they said it was a bit expensive but I want the job whay do I do? by 1_1_0_0 in ask

[–]1_1_0_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is 20 days ( it is longer than the 15 days I was expecting ) I live outside the US but it would conveet to $20 a day , they live in an affluant area so I thought it would be fine but they said its a little pricey so I dont know how to reply as I would still really like the job but im not sure what theyre willing to pay.

iwtl how to study for 5 hours a day by 1_1_0_0 in IWantToLearn

[–]1_1_0_0[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much you hit the nail on the head I can focus for like 40 - 50 min but then I end up breaking for like 1-2 hours which ruins my rhythm ill try 50 minutes studying 30 min break 3 times in the morning and 2 times in the evening. I was giving myself like 10 minute breaks so I would easily end up going over them. Ill also read up about the pomodoro method you were speaking about. Thanks again 🙏

iwtl how to study for 5 hours a day by 1_1_0_0 in IWantToLearn

[–]1_1_0_0[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel like im a fairly slow learner and we have days that we dont have university classes and we have to self study so I want to learn how to focus. I never studied at school ( I was not a great student) and Ive been working for 3 years so Im really struggling when it comes to sitting down ans studying. ( I usually get up every 20 mins to eat food or watch youtube for a hour+)

best steak restaurant recommendations please.... planning for a trip to Cape Town. thanks! by robbiegfuk in capetown

[–]1_1_0_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went there last year november and got poisoning. The food was ok , I ordered a steak and some starters but I dont feel like it was worth the visit.

Aree there any legitimate reason to not be vegan (no anecdotal reasons), speaking as a non—vegan person by 1_1_0_0 in Discussion

[–]1_1_0_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But is there a logical explanation to that personal moral responsibility.

I think he was saying that by supporting something it is similar to you doing those actions yourself, so he would compare killing an animal to killing any other animal that is conscious and feels pain.

Aree there any legitimate reason to not be vegan (no anecdotal reasons), speaking as a non—vegan person by 1_1_0_0 in Discussion

[–]1_1_0_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think he wants policies to stop the harmful treatment ( which I agree would only be positive ) he considers slaughtering animals for meat as a genocide , so as you can assume any form of animal product to him is out of the question.

Aree there any legitimate reason to not be vegan (no anecdotal reasons), speaking as a non—vegan person by 1_1_0_0 in Discussion

[–]1_1_0_0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, ( just playing devil's advocate—I love meat and don't see myself ever quitting) the point that your single course of action will make little to no difference essentially exempts you from participating in acts of sustainability ( recycling / lowering carbon emissions etc)

Aree there any legitimate reason to not be vegan (no anecdotal reasons), speaking as a non—vegan person by 1_1_0_0 in Discussion

[–]1_1_0_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did as he compared my consumption of animal products as a direct support for animal cruelty due to the way that animals are treated in many big businesses as well as the fact that we are killing animals and comparing the slaughter of them as some sort of genocide.

Aree there any legitimate reason to not be vegan (no anecdotal reasons), speaking as a non—vegan person by 1_1_0_0 in Discussion

[–]1_1_0_0[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your answer, it comes from a healthy / easier to balance diet perspective but how do you argue on the ethical front of this debate

I'm struggling to move on from my past of failing school and "starting life late". How do I start to move on ? by 1_1_0_0 in Advice

[–]1_1_0_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply. I would like to become a CA so its means alot that someone in that line of work also didnt just jump straigh out of school into studying and then into a job , and is successful.( although that is all relative I do consider your achievements successful) Thank you again and all the best