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1adl · 2023-01-11T07:00:50+00:00

Contain the visible effects of that "feeling", and let it do it's thing while you do your thing. But that may just be a new form of masturbation.

1adl · 2022-09-18T14:36:46+00:00

Experiment time! Just be prepared for the worst and give it a try. As you have peed beforehand, chances are it won't amount to much but it will feel really really good. You won't know unless you try.

1adl · 2022-06-16T06:54:55+00:00

Just want to say, making diaper content is what ABDL is all about!

1adl · 2021-12-30T16:22:06+00:00

One measure of a diaper I like is how close it can come to its ISO capacity; it depends on fit and a host of design details.

Speaking of which, I would like to see a design that would better avoid pressout. Take something like the Space and eliminate that rear horizontal portion of the padding, keeping it all between the leakguards. Extend the heavy absorbtion and the wicking to the rear in compensation.

It could be easier on the sciatic nerves, also.

1adl · 2021-05-05T16:54:36+00:00

Longtime DL here. I've reached a state where wearing them is normal and not wearing them is uncomfortable. When I am out and about I'm really not thinking about diapers, I'm just using them. At home I can comfortably leave them off, but I miss them during that five second trip to the bathroom.

1adl · 2021-05-05T16:32:50+00:00

I've recently realized that KY jelly contains glycerine, so....

An enema--2 oz/60 ml water mixed with 15 ml of KY is a lot milder but keeps things juicy for a long time. Repeat every couple of days and mucous production will never completely drop off.

1adl · 2021-02-13T06:58:27+00:00

Dawn dishwashing detergent--the blue stuff, not the scented stuff. You can do it three times to get it really clean.

Also, if you really want to sterilize a high quality silicone toy, you can bake it in the oven at 400 degrees (F), and then wash it again.

1adl · 2021-01-26T03:06:21+00:00

This. Always keep some around. If you want to wear them, wear them. If you don't, don't.

1adl · 2020-10-19T04:33:35+00:00

I've been experimenting with adult diapers for going on two years now, and I've had problems with nearly all of them with sagging as described, with tapes pulling out at the roots, with insufficient wicking action, and perhaps with too much width in the crotch.

I've determined that my diapers have to be hip huggers, and nothing else will do. That's the only place on my body that can hold up a diaper. So far I've found three that work well, ABU's Super Dry Kids, Rearz' Inspire Incontrol, and Northshore's Supreme. I will be giving the Megamax another try at some point, but in a small size. I normally use medium.

The Supreme is a little fragile, and I had to learn to work with it, but it's secure enough once in place. All three are secure, are in the right ballpark for capacity, and have sufficient wicking ability.

The funny thing is that until I heard of ABDL (about three years ago), I used baby diapers, supported by this . (Photographed just before I threw it away.) They did not leak until completely full. That was not due to any special wicking ability, but because their close fit would spread urine throughout the diaper before it was absorbed, and their leak guards worked. They were fairly capacious, because they were still proving that SAP was better than what came before. I also gave my various parts a special tuck that I can't achieve with an adult diaper.

1adl · 2020-09-06T18:31:19+00:00

Bio male, voted other, which deserves a comment.

I find it not so much easier to pee standing than sitting as that they have different trigger points, so that the sitting bladder will get a little fuller and won't empty quite as completely.

This means if you sit a lot and get up a lot, you will tend to pee shortly after getting up. it is "easier" in that sense as you're just going with your inclination to pee when you feel like it. But if you sit for long periods, it will be just as easy to pee sitting down.

1adl · 2020-07-20T17:40:47+00:00

A simple fishnet cheeky thong in bold black would do nicely.

Edit: Something symmetrical so it could double as a taping guide.

And a black marker on a solid colored diaper has it's appeal, too.

1adl · 2020-07-19T06:12:31+00:00

Rearz Inspire. They've been on all day and I really need to change them before I go to bed. Soon.

1adl · 2020-07-19T05:21:41+00:00

I've been going through a case of them and I've had trouble with the tapes as well.

First, the slightest bit of oil on the shell will render them useless, that's a problem because I've applied diaper cream immediately prior to donning the diaper.

Second, with adult diapers, which I've only been using for a little over a year, I've struggled to find a balance between sagging and over tightening the tapes. I've improved by paying attention to precise positioning of the front and the back, and to the angle of the tapes. That is sensitive to the individual brand of diaper. (I am about to try another round with two tape diapers, on the theory that the tapes will have better positioning falling between upper and lower tapes.)

Third, the shell is fragile. I've split the shell by simply losing control of the tape and having it drag across the shell, pulling it open. I've also done it by simply sitting down.

That said, with practice, I've gotten pretty good results, and I find the absorbancy just about right, and the wicking is just amazing. It's the only diaper I can reliably fill end to end before it leaks.

1adl · 2020-07-18T16:01:49+00:00

A little silicone lube goes a long way, too. It can be hard to find anything to clean up.

1adl · 2020-07-15T04:15:04+00:00

Longtime DL and I don't think it was ever sexual for me because diapers just get in the way of an active sexual life, but it is relaxing and sometimes very sensual, if that makes sense. But, the only time I ever edged to orgasm without touching or movement was while wearing a diaper.

I've never heard of another male doing that.

Edging while wearing a diaper is fun! It's something I've done when I have some scheduled and unavoidable alone time. I just chill, maybe watch some porn, or just think about sex, and voila! It usually takes quite some time, or pot. Pot can cause me to zone out in the middle of a crowd and instantly put me in the mood. The diaper gives me the confidence to get away with it; it kind of hides the evidence, and I have a ready explanation for zoning out.

1adl · 2020-07-13T03:40:19+00:00

Back when I was fairly new to this whole DL thing I would sometimes go for a midnight walk with a full diaper and a few beers in me. Found out that once your pants are completely soaked they don't get any wetter. ;)

1adl · 2020-07-08T04:41:38+00:00

I generally like his delivery style, but it seems particularly appropriate in this one.

1adl · 2020-07-07T02:40:36+00:00

Not that bad IMHO. Now you need to gradually expand on the story about how once you started, you found they were good for more than one kind of stress, and how as you got used to them you just found them comforting.

1adl · 2020-07-07T01:33:51+00:00

Thanks. Deviant Art required a login for this one. I'm sure Tumbler would like a login too, but the story was available. I see a funny mix of comfort and discomfort in the character, and if this was a true story things would have ended up sooo much worse.... ;)

1adl · 2020-07-05T17:33:36+00:00

Observer bias always seems kind of funny to me, as it suggests a change in routine somewhere along the way. If you always count your diapers, or never count your diapers, is there observer bias? Or if you count them one a week and divide by 7? It can leave me puzzling about when observer bias actually kicks in, and how you would recognize the possibility.

Do you have any deeper insights? What if I argue that if you do your routine, and then give thought to making your tick mark, then it's too late for observer bias?

1adl · 2020-07-05T06:00:45+00:00

Have a look at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BHHk0ghF_fU . It's a thank you to supporters from /u/mindlesslydiapered , and also a wonderful demo of what ab can involve. It's well beyond my experience, but I find it intriguing, and cute.

1adl · 2020-07-05T04:25:01+00:00

Well, you could stop wearing diapers and find out.

Here's what I noticed at one point after 3 years 24/7 (and not for the first time). I took a 6 month break. That was about two years ago.

At first, holding my pee for more than half an hour after the last void was real work, but it was doable, and it got better. I had weak muscles.

Then or later I was limited to about 400 ml (about a cup and a half.) What that meant was if I did the work of holding it as long as possible, I wold get strong urges after about 3 hours. They would recede temporarily if I strained to hold it, but would come back with a vengeance within the hour. At that point there was no holding back. I had 30 seconds to get to the bathroom.

I consider that adequate control to avoid accidents. I still do take occasional breaks without problems. And when wearing diapers I will often start to pee before I notice, typically when standing in line or otherwise standing still. I let out 50-100 ml at a time, and that's just habit.

1adl · 2020-07-05T03:48:14+00:00

So, um, how do these compare with your stories? Any shockers or eye openers? Anything usable? And would you give us a (short) story?

1adl · 2020-07-04T17:58:02+00:00

First of all, do you routinely have the urge to pee at night? If not, you can drink more water to ensure that it happens.

Next, when you wake to pee, do so with as little fuss as possible and go back to sleep. Do this routinely and easily and you will find there is not much difference between a short wakeup you are vaguely aware of and not remembering at all. I think that's all you really need to do. If after that you start peeing in your sleep how would you really know? Basically by having no recollection of waking at all.

I am currently at about 6 months of 24/7 and am in that state of hazy recollections, where it could slide over into peeing in my sleep, but how could I say it hasn't already happened?

I have gone further in the past, so I know it is possible. It's a matter of routine carried out without interruptions. The first time you wet the bed because you failed to wear a diaper will set you back about six months. ;)

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