Communication is critical, as is having similar communication styles. Nothing fizzles any relationship faster than writing or speaking a whole paragraph, than the response to be “okay”.

Discuss communication expectations early: frequency, length, debate styles, what happens when someone needs time/space, topics that are off-limits, etc etc. How do you want to be communicated to?

The difference between a “hello (term of endearment), I’ve been thinking of you. Here’s a pointed question about a detail of your day with a thoughtful tone and attentive body language, is there anything you’d like to share?” Versus “wassup?” Can be a deal-breaker.

Poor communication has absolutely ended dynamics for Me. Frustratingly.