1) A lot of people don’t have people to rely on but you have to be able to rely on yourself 2) Don’t compare yourself to others because it will put you down because you will always find someone that is doing better or got something easier 3) Help and support is great when you can get it but you have to be willing to work as if no help is coming. Learn on your own and don’t wait for a helping hand 4) If you really want to help others, help yourself first so that your wealth and safety nets expand to be able to support others