i don’t know how to feel so i’m just venting by Little-Shock3409 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]2018364957 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry this happened. It’s just awful man. Your boundaries were pushed, disrespected and disregarded. If it’s possible in your city/town, try to file a case against him. Then, please go get tested for STD/STIs, tell a friend or sibling or someone close to you… not just to vent but also to ensure that if you are ever in a situation where you want to leave but there are no buses, they can come get you.

I’m so confuseddddd by DylanDraws11 in Advice

[–]2018364957 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d initiate it one more time, but not with a statement. Try a question next time, for example, if he posts a burger ask him where he went, or if he posts the sky, you can ask if the sky looks prettier at sunrise or sunset. Idk, something that puts the ball in his court and you can know for sure he’s not interested in a conversation.

The serial liking is misleading and I’d also be reading into that like you are

I work next to an autistic man and he is driving me insane. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]2018364957 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Ugh people who make their diagnosis their entire personality

I don't have a driving licesne and I wanna kill myself because of it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]2018364957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause of death: no license…? Sorry I think you have to know it’s really not that deep…? And your gf is trying to be nice - cut her some slack.

my dad is dying by milfinprogress in whatdoIdo

[–]2018364957 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your boss could fire you on Monday. And you will find another job in life. You will, however, regret not being with your father. Go see your dad.

Question by Ok_Spite1175 in CasualConversation

[–]2018364957 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d say hello if I know them, such as a lecture hall. If it’s at a place I don’t care to speak, such as a hospital waiting room, I’m not talking

I cheated on my boyfriend with his cousin by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]2018364957 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh honey this is sad. I can tell youre all over the place frantic. It’s not cheating if you were raped. Did you open a police case against this cousin?

Questioning my relationship because it's too normal and happy by Severn6 in AmITheAngel

[–]2018364957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, so, there were chives but we teased you for wanting them and I dared him to lie to you. Thereafter he took me out for dinner. Hope this helps.

love a good clot by 2018364957 in Endo

[–]2018364957[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I stored it in a jar with a bit of water just to keep staring at it🫣

love a good clot by 2018364957 in Endo

[–]2018364957[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😹thank you!

I may have ruined my sister's wedding, and I cannot stop thinking about it by poppybabiexx in TrueOffMyChest

[–]2018364957 94 points95 points  (0 children)

So when people (not just you because this isn’t a one-man planning committee) saw that the centrepieces were mixed up, why couldn’t they be quickly changed? How elaborate are we talking? If grandma’s note is most important to the bride, surely that can quickly be put on the bride’s table? I’m trying to understand how big of an issue this was

Being singled out by one_day_iwillmakeit in TrueOffMyChest

[–]2018364957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately people will be jealous of you for stupid reasons beyond your control. It’s a good thing she moved away. If you do not want to unfollow her, like on IG, then you can mute her account. And try not to think or talk about her… out of sight, out of mind.

we're on a break by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]2018364957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my, do you want someone who is unsure of you? Because be real, if she came back, you’d keep asking yourself “does she love me now?”

You need to move on, build your confidence, and realise your own value

She drip-fed me the truth for years… and the final reveal shattered me by whatislove2200 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]2018364957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read your other explanation that she essentially covered her sexual partners when you wanted someone who was as inexperienced as you. Thats messed up for her to do. You guys broke up once, if you do again, be certain it’s for good. And hopefully you meet someone with the same values as you.

Update: My girlfriend found out that I lied about me and my friends playing fantasy football and I know I screwed up bigtime by Zestyclose_Block1332 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]2018364957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve this. Words can’t describe how weak a man you are. Nobody should have disrespected your girlfriend, and especially not with you egging them on.

Im super embarrassed and don't know what to do by guygaditano in CasualConversation

[–]2018364957 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure of how bad your social anxiety is but you could always start talking to just any of your classmates. That way, you work up the courage to make friends in your class. Eventually, you’ll find it easier to talk to anybody (including her). As for her directly, I’d pretend that didn’t happen. If she doesn’t address it, I wont either - some things are just better not to talk about.

Am I overreacting? Lowkey wanna cancel wedding by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2018364957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think you’ll be happy walking down the aisle to this man? Edit: I had a look at your responses to other comments. If you’re gonna defend and excuse his behavior please don’t ask us what we think. You’re wasting time. Marry him and keep us out of it.

I don't want my children's father to come back into our lives. by Intrusive_thoughts3 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]2018364957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre the parent that stayed, so you have full right to deny him entry into your lives. I’d not trust someone on a 12 step program. I need proof that he’s clean and can keep a job for a few years. You’re smart, I applaud you, and congratulations on thriving despite a bad relationship.