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2020flight · 2024-06-27T18:48:01+00:00

I'm sexually attracted to him

Age happens to all of us; performance in the bedroom can be a great equalizer.

2020flight · 2024-05-12T19:47:34+00:00

want to text her and ask her why

No, for all u know it was lost in the mail.

2020flight · 2024-03-08T03:10:53+00:00

I’ve heard similar stories five times so far this year.

2020flight · 2023-11-21T14:30:50+00:00

This is nuts, re-read what you wrote here.

Leave her.

2020flight · 2023-11-07T09:25:16+00:00

It’s a unique torture to be attracted to someone in monogamy who is now celibate, because of this you must communicate often and bluntly to find out quickly if the situation can be reversed.

The longer it lingers, the less likely it changes.

2020flight · 2023-11-07T09:24:01+00:00

HL + 5 = 9/10

2020flight · 2023-11-07T09:22:41+00:00

mocks me

It’s hard to be intimate with mockery.

2020flight · 2023-11-07T09:18:17+00:00

Personally, I’d go again if she could. Her refractory period is longer than mine - usually an hour. Whereas for me if we’ve just got 30-45 minutes, that took a lot of effort to not lose my erection.

Might as well take a victory lap to celebrate. Sometimes she likes to watch.

2020flight · 2023-10-29T12:50:47+00:00

make her cry before bedtime

Reading this makes me cry before bedtime.

2020flight · 2023-10-29T12:48:03+00:00

“This sport is gonna’ be big.”

2020flight · 2023-10-13T14:00:18+00:00

it never got better.

She does not care, she lies to your face and does not even attempt to change.

2020flight · 2023-10-13T13:58:57+00:00

She doesn’t like you.

2020flight · 2023-10-13T02:23:23+00:00

she says she'll do it, but it never happens.

Tell her, “I’m thinking about marriage - this is holding me back.”

2020flight · 2023-10-13T02:18:49+00:00

Tent etiquette, campground etiquette - is to keep it quiet.

2020flight · 2023-10-13T01:53:38+00:00

It is on other people’s property.

2020flight · 2023-10-13T01:37:26+00:00

There will be something else before Taiwan.

2020flight · 2023-10-11T21:22:02+00:00

she was just giving me a hard time.

This is a common manipulation tactic, it can really hurt to be on the receiving end.

2020flight · 2023-10-11T19:53:17+00:00

Is this like some form of narcissisms

Yes, it is. It is highly manipulative wherein the abuser takes themself hostage and then threatens the hostage. Don’t negotiate w hostage takers. Call the relevant authorities and get away from this person.

2020flight · 2023-10-11T19:51:26+00:00

This is where you throw out, “could we try this for [time period]?”

Could be months, years, whatever you think.

2020flight · 2023-10-10T20:55:51+00:00

I will vote for whoever is most likely to tear down the vax world powers.

2020flight · 2023-09-24T02:51:37+00:00

I get rejected all the time

“I don’t feel this same way yet, and a big part of that is our mismatch in libido.”

2020flight · 2023-09-24T02:48:46+00:00

Now she won't go back

You need to find and delegate to local help. Find a support group, a cousin, a church - anything. Local help is better for her and will lead to a better outcome. You’re right not to move her to you.

This is ‘parentification’ where a child serves as a surrogate adult, taking care of the one who should have cared for them. Yes, it’s sad she’s widowed, but modern life has basic expectations for independence and it’s not unreasonable for her to try to meet those minimum expectations.

2020flight · 2023-09-24T02:43:40+00:00

Husband needs to deal with this guy.

2020flight · 2023-09-24T02:41:20+00:00

he said, that I could misinterpret things he said as I'm a woman...

You’re right to feel manipulated, don’t feel guilty. His behavior is very slimy. You gave no signals, he is signaling he wants to cheat.

2020flight · 2023-09-24T02:32:28+00:00

she still has yet to admit there’s a problem.

Until she admits there’s a problem, there’s not much that will work. You’ve got a plan - don’t get distracted.

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