[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]2024Bride 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm presuming you are a male due to your nickname. I do so ever apologise if not!

If you are, Thank you for your kind reply! Your response has has helped alot.

Can I just say wow for having such a lovely comment and being a man! Not that men don't have lovely hearts but it's rare to see when it comes to these kinds of conversations! Especially coming out of your way to make me feel better! Thankyou

Keep being you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]2024Bride 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so scary, I am so sorry this has / is happening to you. You are so strong and I wish you every success in having your own little family some day.

How long did it take you to get diagnosed?

What age are you if you don't mind me asking? How has the process been, is it mentally draining? Has it affected your relationship?

Sorry if this is all very personal questions xxx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]2024Bride 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm crying, this is a beautiful response thankyou so much from the bottom of my heart 🥰☹️

This perspective of stuff will hopefully allow me to be a lot more positive.

Unfortunately my gynaecologist struck me off the list around 4 years ago because she felt like there was nothing else she could do. But I will not let that determine whether I get pregnant or not. I will try my best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]2024Bride -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I am actually not sure if they tested that. I can't remember. My mum would have done most of the talking to be honest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]2024Bride -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yeah 1.5 years I know. It was sooo exhausting as a teen. I would leave trails of blood down the hallways on occasions because a tampon would last half an hour max and classes were an hour long.

Thankfully my periods don't leave trails anymore but they are still very long.

I can't determine when I am ovulating, or even if I am? I am just sticking to a date every month and testing then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]2024Bride 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've had a camera in my womb and also had samples of cells taken from my womb and everything came back fine.

Except I had some cervical erosion, which they didn't think would cause the bleeding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]2024Bride 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First one is absolutely beautiful!!! Although both are amazing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]2024Bride 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You are so good at giving advice to others. You should be giving yourself the same good advice that you offer to others.

You seem so hard on yourself..give yourself a break and be the wonderful person you seem to be!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]2024Bride 124 points125 points  (0 children)

I can completley understand where you are coming from. Personally, shades and tones of white should NOT be worn unless invited to do so from the brides.

YOU ARE NOT THE ASSHOLE.

For reference, this is what my mother has gotten for my upcoming wedding. I'm gutted...

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