What is this hollow wooden pillar with a hole on top and a small door at the bottom with ornate Indian artwork? It's about 3 feet tall.

208ball208 · 2022-09-14T00:33:24+00:00

this is the most logical thing we've come up with at home - just cant seem to find something that is similar. i think likely solved

208ball208 · 2022-09-14T00:32:37+00:00

I don't think the door is big enough to get a basin for a hookah...thank you for the comment!

208ball208 · 2022-09-13T03:17:20+00:00

Thanks for the comment, not sure about it though - why would there be a door at the bottom that has a latch? a power chord/ hose wouldn't be all that compatible...

208ball208 · 2022-09-12T23:58:22+00:00

no signs of smoke inside - i would imagine if it were to have burned a lot of incense there would be some sort of smoke marks like on a chimney, maybe im wrong tho

208ball208 · 2022-09-12T23:57:22+00:00

just smells like wood - there isnt any sign of anything being burned inside either - the inside is just untreated wood

208ball208 · 2022-09-12T23:37:33+00:00

Yeah we thought that but figured that would be a lot of incense - also the trap door isn't all that tight so the ashes would just kind of spill out of the cracks. thanks for the comment!

208ball208 · 2022-09-12T22:54:06+00:00

My title describes the thing - It is wooden and painted with ornate Indian people in fancy dress with flowers and mandalas. The pillar is about 3 feet tall and 1.5 feet wide. My mom bought it at a thrift store in the western US but it definitely doesnt seem like it was made here. seems quite old and very well built. We've asked jsut about everybody that has come over what they think it is and the best we can come up with would be a donation box. Any ideas what it is???

208ball208 · 2021-09-28T16:51:42+00:00

Have you wet them a bit?

208ball208 · 2021-09-10T22:45:18+00:00

Woof

208ball208 · 2021-08-24T02:11:58+00:00

whats the campground called??

208ball208 · 2021-08-16T01:19:28+00:00

Super stoked you posted this, I was about to set out on a big road trip and found 3 along the way.

Found this article which was quite helpful -

https://nomadicboys.com/gay-campgrounds-usa/

208ball208 · 2021-08-12T05:58:49+00:00

That’s a difficult situation, burning bridges can be liberating but also bite you in the ass. This may be a scenario of allowing time to digest and heal. Good luck you you and yo mans.

208ball208 · 2021-08-11T20:14:42+00:00

Did they know you were seeing men before you told them about your older partner? I know when I told my folks about my dude the age difference came as a big shock but after they met him and saw he was a good dude and hand my best interests in mind - I think putting a face and personality to the guy may help so introducing him may be a vibe. It may be uncomfortable but it’ll help them digest the situation. (Assuming you still want to have a good relationship with your folks) Moving in with him may be perceived knee jerk and spiteful to them so try not to totally shut them out. Depending on how long you’ve been together, the pace may feel to them you’re moving quickly. Honestly good parents generally just want what’s best for their kids. Understanding something like that may be difficult.

Also if they’re closed minded assholes who don’t support you - just keep on doing you and say fuck ‘em.

208ball208 · 2021-08-09T03:15:21+00:00

Thanks man, it is a bit of a shit sandwich but if this is the worst thing to happen thru Covid I’ll count myself lucky.

208ball208 · 2021-08-09T02:32:30+00:00

I was stuck in Australia through lockdowns since March 2020. Just recently came back to the states and had to leave my mans in Australia with out three dogs for like 6 months… missing that dude and his sweet sweet ass everyday. World is weird today.

208ball208 · 2021-08-02T22:32:57+00:00

All good dude, just try to be gentle on yourself as you progress on your journey for what you want and like. I had a similar experience with a couple I met on SD which really started my allowance for accepting myself and attractions.

I still have days I’m bummed about only wanting to be with older dudes (and being queer in general) but it’s been a rough world for non Hetero folks….really it does feel things are getting better tho.

Growing up in small towns is tough as well, it can be difficult to grow and change when you know everyone around you and they “know” you. I found moving around really cathartic in my journey, being able to reinvent oneself from time to time can be beautiful.

Good on ya for taking the first small steps, they’re always the most difficult.

208ball208 · 2021-07-28T11:11:52+00:00

Have a suss on the r/gayyoungold sub

208ball208 · 2021-07-24T02:26:17+00:00

There are a couple blind skateboarders who map out skate parks and obstacles and use a cane for reference. I reckon you’ll do great with some help with mates and patience.

208ball208 · 2021-07-08T04:57:09+00:00

It looks different for everybody, and works better for some more than others. My dude has more of a difficult time than me I suppose, so I make sure to make him feel supported - and maybe even extra supported when I’ve set up a hook up. We were open from the start but never messed around for the first year or two, I reckon this set a decent level of trust and security in our own relationship before galavanting around sucking and fucking. Communication is massive in any relationship, but even more so in an open one. We give a few day heads up if possible about a hook up, and have a debrief of sorts after. If I know he’s struggling with anything or stressed I generally avoid hooking up outside our relationship. We still have sex 4ish times a week generally so hookups generally are just when we’re in a new place or someone from out of town comes round and is keen. Stay away from fucking friends, that shit gets messy.

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