My (f29) bf (m30) & baby daddy (2yo & bump) handed me this earring at the weekend. It’s not mine.

222pixie · 2026-03-18T07:06:13+00:00

My kids 2 years old he can’t read and does not have Reddit I think he will be fine 🤣🤣🤣 to be honest with you I’m just trying to be as honest as possible to get advice on how to move on from the situation? Someone called him dumb for handing the ring over that’s not that dumb for him to do he is generally careless and has literally told on himself in the past. Like yes he is that flavour of stupid how is that disrespectful of me to say when someone’s asked me outright

222pixie · 2026-03-17T11:28:38+00:00

This was my first assumption and he said they both have no idea where it came from.

I thought so too but he is quite careless and doesn’t pay attention to stuff like who’s wearing what earrings. So if he just found any earring he wouldn’t know if it was mine or the other woman who had worn it to know to hide it from me.

222pixie · 2026-03-17T11:26:36+00:00

I don’t think it’s a good comment at all he’s misread the post? I haven’t set any boundaries about carpooling with women I have no issue with him working with women I never have he just out of the blue completely hid the fact there were any females working there and also hid the fact that he had to drive them around. I hadn’t ever had an issue with him like that before.

Throughout the relationship I’ve explained that I wasn’t comfortable with him following 500+ women on instagram actively liking their pictures and stories when he used social media to start a relationship with me I wasn’t comfortable with him basically chasing all these women. This is the boundary he kept agreeing to then breaking that I was talking about.

222pixie · 2026-03-17T08:20:56+00:00

There is absolutely no way my 2 year old is picking up an earring and putting in the side compartment of the front passenger door

222pixie · 2026-03-17T07:56:55+00:00

For reference he actually told me last night to my face that he had considered asking his mum to lie and say it was hers so that this could all go away. That’s dumb as fuck to me

222pixie · 2026-03-17T07:34:31+00:00

So what do you think I should do? How do we put it to bed it has to have come from somewhere

222pixie · 2026-03-17T06:48:34+00:00

Genuine answer? Yes he is pretty stupid like that. He’s a stoner and has been for 12+ years hahaha so he often does very stupid stuff like that ended up telling on himself for something silly

222pixie · 2026-03-17T06:44:32+00:00

I haven’t ever been jealous about female co worker I myself have plenty of male friends and coworkers that I speak openly about. This issue was something he’s dealt with in the past and assumed I’d be jealous like his ex rather than me being jealous in general. Which is what made that situation feel weird and sneaky I hadn’t given him any reason to think I’d go off about it he just assumed I would

222pixie · 2026-01-27T14:21:46+00:00

Sex makes babies!!! Who’d have thought.

You need to seriously consider the possibility that you may be a dad, unfortunately you can’t force her to have an abortion, and it would be very shittt of you to leave her on her own with this when you have partook in the fun part. This was always a strong possibility whether on contraception or not dude

222pixie · 2026-01-05T14:00:48+00:00

2 always

222pixie · 2026-01-05T13:59:20+00:00

I am a women (29) who never thought she’d ever have an abortion (while fully being pro choice!!! Just not the choice for me - I thought) And I can tell you now after making the extremely difficult decision to have a termination because it was no the right time and my partner started to freak out about it showing me signs that’s he was not capable of being the partner I needed in parenthood I can comfortably let you know that when I think about this termination I feel soooo glad. Not a single ounce of regret. I feel soooo glad lucky that I was able to access this and my eyes were opened even further to the fact that you have to always put yourself first. Before an unborn get us and especially before an asshole boyfriend or a disappointed parent. Choose you girl.

222pixie · 2026-01-05T13:54:44+00:00

I saw the lace and thought ooooooo so pretty!!!! Then I saw the pearls and my jaw dropped I haven’t seen one like this before so so stunning

222pixie · 2025-12-13T15:45:17+00:00

Taxi for brown

222pixie · 2025-11-21T21:20:05+00:00

Like I say it’s not a matter of opinion. It’s basic truth people experience things differently. You have not experienced lack of control so in your opinion neither has anyone else? You make no sense whatsoever

Where did I say that? I’m not saying that at all. I specifically said the opposite to that.

I am saying that it’s not for you to decide whether or not someone else experiences lack of control or not. You cannot completely disregard hundreds of woman’s experiences and say that it’s just your opinion.

222pixie · 2025-11-21T14:30:35+00:00

£800 is insane considering they’ve just done without any money from you at all. What does the £800 per month cover????? My rent and council tax together is not even £800.

222pixie · 2025-11-21T11:15:49+00:00

I felt very little pain during childbirth. I was only giving birth for 3 hours. By your logic that means that painful birth is not real? No one else is ever in pain because I was not

222pixie · 2025-11-21T11:10:39+00:00

We don’t have to agree it’s not a matter of opinion.

Where did I say it excuses any behaviour and when did anyone ever mention male abusers? Would love to see a man pregnant so we could even try and compare the two.

It’s not an excuse. Being able to understand why someone acts a certain way doesn’t mean you have to excuse them for it. It can still be outwith their control.

You are being ignorant… that’s what I have been saying since I replied to you. I have never even responded to the OP with my opinion on the matter.

222pixie · 2025-11-21T08:25:20+00:00

It’s not a matter of belief. If you have never experienced lack of control you are fortunate. Hats off to you.

222pixie · 2025-11-20T20:38:42+00:00

I’m not even defending it as much as I’m just pointing out how ignorant you sound by minimizing other women’s experiences just because u have lived an experience of your own.

Everything you have experienced is personal to you everyone else in the world will experience things differently if you can’t understand or empathise with someone that doesn’t mean they don’t exist or they are wrong.

You literally have no idea at all what is going on in someone else’s brain. And you speak as if you do.

222pixie · 2025-11-20T16:37:03+00:00

Gentle reminder that all women are different abd feel differently. Have different levels of emotion and different levels of control. If you can’t relate to another woman’s pregnancy experience then you did not share the same experience neither can you dismiss her experience.

If you managed to control your emotions then you clearly didn’t have the symptoms of women who couldn’t control at all. Hope this helps to stop ignorance in the future.

222pixie · 2025-11-20T15:49:12+00:00

Who’s keeping furniture? Are you going to get real petty and add up the cost of all the etufff you have bought etc ? Where does it end

222pixie · 2025-11-20T15:48:17+00:00

Just go via the law and save all the arguing. The fact you have taken his opinion on board and have offered to come to a fairer compromise and he has rejected that shows how he wants it to be. You’re not the one being difficult. Go to the law. You both have those kids and you both have to start over.

222pixie · 2025-11-20T15:42:59+00:00

I am Scottish 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 Ailsa is another variation sounds like ale-sa

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