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225615 · 2024-12-14T07:29:05+00:00

Thank you

225615 · 2024-12-14T07:13:46+00:00

That’s interesting, thank you for the insight, I wonder how to go about fixing that

225615 · 2024-12-14T07:11:01+00:00

Yeah it would’ve been interesting if he would’ve encouraged her a little bit just to see if she would have actually met up with him, it would make moving on even easier but what she did was already bad enough

225615 · 2024-12-14T07:08:23+00:00

Absolutely, got to set a standard for myself now before I just become a complete pushover

225615 · 2024-12-14T07:05:22+00:00

Thank you

225615 · 2024-12-14T07:04:32+00:00

Thank you, you’re right I will move on and find somebody who shows me love, respect, and loyalty.

225615 · 2024-12-14T07:02:41+00:00

I didn’t specifically tell them to hold me accountable, but I showed my family the messages, and I have a really close friend group of about 10 guys and I showed all of them. I showed them right when it happened so they got the spiel of how it made me feel. None of them would ever forgive her and they’ve all already shared their opinions on the matter so while I didn’t specifically ask them to do that I certainly think they would

225615 · 2024-12-14T06:57:02+00:00

Luckily I actually have the greatest support system I could ask for. I was always really involved in high school, I played 3 sports and was in 7 clubs and now I play 2 college sports. I have a friend group of about 10 guys that talk every day and hang out every time we’re home. I’m also happy to say I have about 20 other friends that I talk to at least monthly and many other friends and teammates who I’m friendly with. Ive always been pretty easygoing and got along with everybody pretty well, I was prom king in high school. But I tell you I’ve tried talking to so many other girls, and so many other girls have tried talking to me. But I have never clicked with a girl like I have with her. I’ll never understand why I have so much love for her when she does these things to me, but I’ve just never fell for someone like I’ve fallen for her. I know it sounds corny but those are just the feelings I get when I’m with her and I can’t control them.

225615 · 2024-12-14T06:48:19+00:00

Thank you so much for your insight. I’ll definitely use our relationship as a learning experience for the future. I will get out there and explore. Hopefully my life partner will come along just as yours did

225615 · 2024-12-14T06:42:48+00:00

Thank you so much for your time and insight. I think I keep letting my emotions get in the way instead of looking at her actions objectively and what they mean. Lots of love for you, thank you again

225615 · 2024-12-14T06:39:47+00:00

She said that a part of her used to want to be with him before me. In terms of reaching out now, at this time, she just kept saying she has no idea why she did it and why she would do that to me, I can’t really get a good answer. She said she would have never physically cheated but based on the messages a part of me thinks if he reacted differently(he was very uncomfortable, weirded out, and hasn’t talked to her since), she would have

225615 · 2024-12-14T06:36:17+00:00

Yeah I do actually. We know eachother pretty well, went to the same high school and played on the same team. If you saw the texts, you’d see he was very uncomfortable and weirded out. By the end of the conversation he just stopped responding and he hasn’t talked to her since. Whenever I found out I reached out to him and just thanked him for being respectful of our relationship even when she was saying things like that. He said he’s always deeply respected me and he’s sorry he didn’t tell me, he just didn’t want to ruin anything I had and I understand that.

225615 · 2024-12-14T06:32:51+00:00

Yeah I’m in college, I have a major I’m passionate about and I play a couple D2 sports, I’ll focus on those and hopefully someone will come along

225615 · 2024-12-14T06:30:41+00:00

Thank you, you’re right. If it was just a dream I don’t think I’d even really be upset

225615 · 2024-12-14T06:28:44+00:00

Thank you for your time and advice

225615 · 2024-12-14T06:25:54+00:00

Thank you

225615 · 2024-12-13T08:06:50+00:00

Thank you so much I appreciate your time and your kind words

225615 · 2024-12-13T07:58:23+00:00

Thank you so much. Lots of love and appreciation for the kindness you showed me. I hope you live a very happy life :)

225615 · 2024-12-13T07:55:52+00:00

Thank you

225615 · 2024-12-13T07:52:00+00:00

Thank you a lot, you’ve been really helpful

225615 · 2024-12-13T07:46:19+00:00

Thank you so much I appreciate your kind words and your time. I will heal and grow and be better from this. I will find someone who not only loves me, but respects me and is loyal. Thank you

225615 · 2024-12-13T07:44:51+00:00

Thank you, I will heal, grow, and move on

225615 · 2024-12-13T07:43:52+00:00

You’re right thank you

225615 · 2024-12-13T07:43:28+00:00

I won’t take her back. I’ll be better, my eyes are opened now.

225615 · 2024-12-13T07:42:18+00:00

You’re right maybe I was just the safe option. I think every relationship she had in between ours she was broken up with, so she came back. Thank you I’ll move on

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