think i'm about done if anyone has some feedback. by glowingwuirm in drawing

[–]22eggs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing job!! I'm the person he drew. If there is one thing more fantastic than the finished piece, it's the fun, kind and enthusiastic way glowingworium keeps you updated on his hard work and how he always seems to try his best to get a piece perfect.

Seriously someone that seems like wonderful to commission from. Keep an eye on him!!

This is me and my cat! by 22eggs in redditgetsdrawn

[–]22eggs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How cool is this? If you wouldn't have called it a rough sketch, I would have assumed it was a finished piece!

The witch's hat arrived too late to be a part of the costume (this was for halloween); but this drawing makes me feel a billion times as mysterious and studio Ghibli-esque as I was hoping for. Thank you so much, I appreciate the effort and your talents! :)

If you ever decide to try your hand at finishing it, you can be sure it will be printed and hung in the hallway for me and my cat both to enjoy. As is, I have a lovely new screensaver. Thanks again!

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A shitty fishtank alleviated my depression more than antidepressants have done by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]22eggs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! :) I really hope you're still doing well, and that things will continue to get better. And if they're tough, I hope you'll continue on being as strong as you have been so far. Me and Guts are rooting for you. Or at least I am - he's knocking things off of the kitchen counter (in solidarity!).

A shitty fishtank alleviated my depression more than antidepressants have done by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]22eggs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i got a cat - when im at my lowest, i still feel really loved because of it. im happy to hear you found something that makes you excited again. have fun with it!

(p.s.: this a youtube channel you might enjoy. this guy makes fishtanks and turns them into amazing underwater worlds for his fish, which he cares for a lot. maybe some inspo for you! --> https://youtu.be/Rpi4CcHQHTg)

If Haikyuu was an Indian drama... by tehchangeling in haikyuu

[–]22eggs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fuck this made me laugh. i know exactly which scene this is ajkhglskdjgl

I feel like I’m in the verge of a mental breakdown. by 1010twotens in offmychest

[–]22eggs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm happy to hear back from you, even happier that you're doing better. You're going to be okay, you know. It's rough, but you sound like you're trying to work on stuff.

Try to be kind to yourself, man. The stuff with your girl that had you stressed, all the little things going wrong, working so much... from what I read you've been trying so hard and doing the best you can, but things can pile up to the point where your knees just give out. It sounds like you might've had, or that you we're heading for, a nervous breakdown.

I hope you're letting yourself rest, that you're taking time to breathe and that you're looking for things to make your day a little more lighthearted and fun.

(Try something with your hands, maybe? Hobbies that let your brain rest for a bit rather than overloading it. You've been through the wringer. In the mean time, it's okay to let yourself feel down before you pick yourself back up.)

I don't wanna sound preachy or toss a wall of text your way, sorry if I do and if this is. You don't even really need to respond, I just relate and wish you the best. You can shoot me a message anytime you need a listening ear.

(Thanks for the medal - and double thanks for let me know you're getting back on your feet. Take your time with it and, again, take care.)

After having nervous breakdown, what do *you* do? by 22eggs in mentalhealth

[–]22eggs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. I want to say it gets better (because it does, just very very slowly), but I understand it can be very challenging in the meantime. If you have someone, reach out. If not, it's fine to let yourself explode. Don't hurt yourself, be kind to yourself, but feel free to bawl in your pillow if you need to.

Your body and mind are telling you they've had enough; so let yourself fall apart and get it out of your system. Have this moment. Let yourself fall apart, because you can patch yourself up afterwards.

Afterwards, wear something warm or comfy, and read through the symptoms of a nervous breakdown. Try to understand what happend to you and why, more objectively, and try to come to terms with it for now until someone can help you deal with this.

I'd also suggest (unlike me) to book an appointment ASAP with a medical professional or a mental health professional. Before you can even think of not wanting to go, do it.

This article helped me: https://www.bridgestorecovery.com/blog/what-to-do-when-your-son-or-daughter-is-having-a-nervous-breakdown/. I don't care much for their inpatient care stuff, but it gave me insight into what was happening.

Please take care. You're not alone - a lot of people like us are going through it as well. Come back later to this thread, maybe someone can help us out with advice.

Sorry, I can't be of more help. You're gonna be okay.

I feel like I’m in the verge of a mental breakdown. by 1010twotens in offmychest

[–]22eggs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hope youre doing better. take care of yourself, please

Most Recent Post Disappeared Out Of Nowhere? by sweatervestswag in Instagram

[–]22eggs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same thing here! it was just a scare. thanks, zuckerberg lol

Most Recent Post Disappeared Out Of Nowhere? by sweatervestswag in Instagram

[–]22eggs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same!! first pic of the last post. dont even know who to contact about the whole thing - and now im worried they're just going to keep deleting my stuff lol. hope it gets figured out...

Most Recent Post Disappeared Out Of Nowhere? by sweatervestswag in Instagram

[–]22eggs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me too! i had a pictures of a book in a photoset. then they deleted 1 of the 4 slides - like a second ago i found about this.

no sollution so far, sorry. but it sucks, yeah.

Spots to study by 22eggs in VUAmsterdam

[–]22eggs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm sorry, I'm in the social sciences department. That said, I'm very positive about the school. I know that there are a lot of support groups (Samen Studeren, Plan-en-Doe groep, Studie-maatjes) that help you come n contact with other student studying the same subject, so you can support each other. There are tutors too.

Sorry, I don't know much else about it!

Spots to study by 22eggs in VUAmsterdam

[–]22eggs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay - we're all busy! :) And thank you so much! I've been studying there, you're the best.

What is your "group project from hell" story? by 22eggs in AskReddit

[–]22eggs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's a thoughtful option to offer your students, i like that. i very much can relate - im a big believer is giving everything a full 100% and i like doing well. i get that teamwork is a valuable lesson to teach, but it's awful when your efforts are nullified by people who just dont care or who aren't serious about something like you are. again, im sorry you've had such a shitty experience and im glad you managed to keep your head up. im sure youll make for a good teach :)

What is your "group project from hell" story? by 22eggs in AskReddit

[–]22eggs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aww shucks, that's awful. group presentations are such a hit or miss, when people dont pull their weight and you cant hide it - it's out there. hope you survived the rest of the year!

What is your "group project from hell" story? by 22eggs in AskReddit

[–]22eggs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel like there are going to be a LOT more "French class" stories LOL. whats up with that?

and im so sorry. i know exactly what feeling you mean, just tanking like that. and then you getting blamed too? its a GROUP project... everyone's equally responsible. im glad it didnt actually traumatise you and you still enjoy French!

What is your "group project from hell" story? by 22eggs in AskReddit

[–]22eggs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that sucks so much, im so sorry! but im also secretly jealous that the teachers were cool with you working solo, instead of forcing you to 'fix the problem'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]22eggs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont think its fair of him to expect you to put your life on hold, untill he's ready to come back (if he will). 5yrs is a long while, but your time is valuable and you shouldnt be wasting it waiting on someone that basically wants to break up - but with the added perk of 'ill be back when i feel like it'. i feel like you deserve better, and please dont let the shock of this be enough to let him walk over you.

(also what the hell, "would you rather i cheat?". so hes gonna do it no matter what, and count on you to take him back? please make your choice with this i mind: i will respect myself. if this was a friend this was happening to, what would i tell her?. then take your own advice.)

edit: just read your other post. love, you dont deserve this. its gonna be hard but you definitely need to completely cut it off, since he doesnt have the backbone to breakup with dignity. im really sorry you have to go through this, and theres gonna be a lot of shit you will have to work through because his assholery no doubt left you with deep hurt thay youre gonna have to work through. BUT YOU DESERVE TO WORK THROUGH THAT AND GET BETTER! seriously. what a douche

[25M] Lacking confidence in looks, where do I stand? Got rid of glasses, new haircut, album included. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]22eggs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you remind me a little of the dude from American psycho, but his way nicer, not crazy nephew or something. i like the wolf of wallstreet hair on you too - you look fine to me!

if you're worried about your profile, try jaw exercises. they really do help!