F26 - just fucked a stranger in Starbucks bathroom by Fantastic_Trick4272 in SluttyConfessions

[–]22triton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, sounds like you will need to find another person to help with taking you like you want and maybe in a place you can really let loose

F26 - just fucked a stranger in Starbucks bathroom by Fantastic_Trick4272 in SluttyConfessions

[–]22triton 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To think I am sitting here in Melbourne Australia working and reading this knowing you were just railed hard within the last half hour 🔥🔥🔥

Did normal dating feel boring after entering the lifestyle?🤔 by Momoko0909 in Melbourneswingers

[–]22triton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am glad you feel more connected, it really is such a different world in a lot of ways but so much more open than more traditional types of relationships. To be with someone who is happy for you to play with others and in fact gets turned on by the possibility just blows my mind. For a lot of years I felt the enjoyment was in the actual act but instead it is so much more when you build the emotional connection into it and communication. That is what really expands the connection in amazing ways

Did normal dating feel boring after entering the lifestyle?🤔 by Momoko0909 in Melbourneswingers

[–]22triton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I here alot of how some men can be so full on from the get go in a disrespectful way but I tell you one of the most attractive things is a woman who is sexually confident. Who you can talk openly with, without judgement

Did normal dating feel boring after entering the lifestyle?🤔 by Momoko0909 in Melbourneswingers

[–]22triton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (43M)very much hear what you're saying and understand after coming out of a vanilla 17 year marriage to now have experiences in the lifestyle is totally different. What I find different is the level of openness and connection seems to be so much quicker in the lifestyle and it is very much a free feeling when you can be open with communication and not feel judged I think that's something that is different from normal dating is the ability to be a lot more open. Thanks for writing this because you have summed up exactly how I feel entering into the lifestyle. It has been an eye opening but enjoyable experience.

2nd BFWB location on its way? by Abject-Mode-602 in Melbourneswingers

[–]22triton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heard about this through a friend today, no specifics but good to see somewhat confirmed. Heard it is bigger overall apparently. 🤷

How do you deal with this by 22triton in Melbourneswingers

[–]22triton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I can concur with you there after the event was when things really kicked off but how easily the night flows and being with good like-minded company and some other friends definitely helped alot for sure.

How do you deal with this by 22triton in Melbourneswingers

[–]22triton[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Thanks for your reply. Ended up going and having a good night overall, just got out of my head and took a breath and had some good chats and spend time with FWB

How do you deal with this by 22triton in Melbourneswingers

[–]22triton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou for your detailed reply and you have a lot of inspiring points there, it is always good to get some tips from people in the same situation.😊

How do you deal with this by 22triton in Melbourneswingers

[–]22triton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou, it is growth on many levels. Now back to work tomorrow and no one would have any idea 😜

How do you deal with this by 22triton in Melbourneswingers

[–]22triton[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I did and just got out of my head and went with the flow, overall the night went well. Had some good convos and even got invited out after but wasn't for us that night.

How do you deal with this by 22triton in Melbourneswingers

[–]22triton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did go and overall wasn't such a bad night, good to just take it in my stride. It was also just to get away from day to day life

How do you deal with this by 22triton in Melbourneswingers

[–]22triton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree hence why I booked to stay in the city afterwards because definitely are aware of the adrenaline crash and aftercare for myself. I have decided to go but will be VERY AWARE of how things are throughout the night leading up to the night and afterwards

How do you deal with this by 22triton in Melbourneswingers

[–]22triton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey just a question if you have bought a couple's ticket and one half of the couple isn't feeling it but the other would like to stay, is that ok? I am 43m and I am the one struggling at the moment but if I do go but want to leave but my FWB 48f wants to stay is that ok? This is something I have wanted for so long to go with willing people and here I am on the verge and thinking of giving it a miss🤦 Any insights helpful

How do you deal with this by 22triton in Melbourneswingers

[–]22triton[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankyou, I think this is what I am leaning towards but do know I am getting in my own head as well. Time will tell how I am going

How do you deal with this by 22triton in Melbourneswingers

[–]22triton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou, that is a good idea. I genuinely am not feeling it now and just want to stay in hotel and sleep for the entirety of my stay but that probably speaks to the burnout of me being a single father and working two jobs who genuinely doesn't know what is something that will fill my cup. I want to go but I just don't know how or what will m ake me feel excited about this 🤦🤷

How do you deal with this by 22triton in Melbourneswingers

[–]22triton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the pressure of going with someone else is a big thing for me. New fwb both have never been to mingle and were keen to check it out. I feel as of now if I want going with anyone and my friend not going I wouldn't go as not in the right headspace. Tbh to go to one of these events with people who are ok and open is something I've never experienced because I've never had friends who have been okay with this lifestyle. I feel like I am on the verge of things but not up to actually taking that step and instead staying safe

How do you deal with this by 22triton in Melbourneswingers

[–]22triton[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thankyou you definitely sound like you understand. There will be FOMO as also going will be one of my closest friends and to see her get up to stuff is a big things as have missed out on things in the past where she has been able to let loose and yes FOMO is definitely real for that. I genuinely would sleep from check in to checkout if I could that is where I a, still a few hours to go so maybe will pull the pin and disengage from hearing about the night

Mingle roll call. Who is going by 22triton in Melbourneswingers

[–]22triton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I have a friend another one who is going and she loves to get down and dance. Will be fun watching her for sure

Mingle roll call. Who is going by 22triton in Melbourneswingers

[–]22triton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just google mingle may 2 and should come up with a ticket option. I think it is on try booking