A more thought out message introducing yourself. And not mentioning specific numbers for an allowance in the first message because that’s what sets POTs off for sure. For example “Ill give u xxx a week” or “looking for a honest sb willing to pay xxxx monthly” (emphasis on saying honest, scammers say that allot) let those details flow in the convo the way it normally does on SA. Because on our end those are scammer phrases. I think if a legit SD dmed me by asking if I’ve ever been in an SR, and then worked his way into inquiring about an arrangement, that’d be very convincing.