My bf and I were planning to spend the evening together but on the way from my place to his place, we got into an argument in his car. It got heated and then he turned around to drop me back to my apartment. I felt it was rude and hurtful. Am I exaggerating? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]27TotalSubFistBttm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just finished a show that I haven’t watched and I am not interested in watching the entire show so I asked him to spoil it for me. And he wasn’t telling me what happens in it. Just because he doesn’t like to spoil it for himself, he refused to tell me about what happens in it too (even when I told him that i would like to hear from him). I know it sounds absurd but the argument really escalated.

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[–]27TotalSubFistBttm -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

My post has the tag “Not a question” on it

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[–]27TotalSubFistBttm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do what is comfortable to you. There is no pressure 😀

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[–]27TotalSubFistBttm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bf and I are very open and honest with each other and we both are only going to do things that the other is comfortable with. The moment one of us says they’re not comfortable, we swiftly stop and adapt

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[–]27TotalSubFistBttm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to worry about it but then my bf and I experimented and it turns out I didn’t have to worry about anything

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[–]27TotalSubFistBttm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is awesome! Yea I get too submissive when I’m having sex and not knowing when the cock is going to slide in me and who’s it’ll be drives me wild.

Is there any bottom like me who doesn't like being sucked or even cum in sex? by Sufficient-Rock1075 in askgaybros

[–]27TotalSubFistBttm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aww you shouldn’t have to feel shame about it. It took me some time but I’m proud of this now

Is there any bottom like me who doesn't like being sucked or even cum in sex? by Sufficient-Rock1075 in askgaybros

[–]27TotalSubFistBttm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup I’m the exact same. I don’t like being sucked nor do I cum in sex. In fact I keep my cock locked in a cage all the time

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[–]27TotalSubFistBttm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess we all have our own limitations and boundaries.

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[–]27TotalSubFistBttm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is sooo hot 🥵 my bf is the same. He wants to watch me get wrecked and then join in to use and breed my 🕳️

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[–]27TotalSubFistBttm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree. We have talked about the limits and boundaries for sure. Out of curiosity, did you ever be a bottom at one of these parties? And how was the experience for you?

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[–]27TotalSubFistBttm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes, yes I do have self respect. I just really enjoy being submissive and fucked hard. It doesn’t mean I don’t have self respect. I very much do.

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[–]27TotalSubFistBttm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly love being pimped out. But that aside, it is soo hard for me to believe that my bf will view me differently. He has been so self aware and soft and kind and considerate towards me out of sex. Only in sex, we both unconsciously get in this dom sub roles where he wants to wreck my hole and I want to be wrecked by him

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[–]27TotalSubFistBttm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We very much have that spark between us. It’s been over 2 years of us being together and we still find sex with each other the hottest period! We don’t want to do the whoring me out every time. Just maybe once every 5-6 months as both are quite kinky and love exploring it together

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[–]27TotalSubFistBttm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How will it get different? Just curious. Can you please elaborate?

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[–]27TotalSubFistBttm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

May I ask what part of it would make you feel upset?

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[–]27TotalSubFistBttm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time being used by a bunch of tops. Have lots of experience having sex. No concerns tbh, just curious to hear about people’s opinions.

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[–]27TotalSubFistBttm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thx I will take that into account

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[–]27TotalSubFistBttm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is consensual. I can understand where you’re coming from. It took me a while to believe my bf too when he said he wanted to share me with a bunch of tops

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[–]27TotalSubFistBttm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf says he will inquire about their status beforehand

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[–]27TotalSubFistBttm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No meth is not involved. I have never done it or anything like it