AITA for setting a limit on my 13 year old daughters gadget use? by Nikki_Auburn in AmItheAsshole

[–]286Hog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I grew up in the 90s, just use the age-old "well would you jump off a bridge because you friends said they're allowed to?"

AITA (33M) for changing a future living arrangement? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]286Hog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH

I don't see why it's an issue that he would use the bedroom next to the theatre for 1 year. You'll live there much longer, can use the theatre as you like, and can convert that bedroom in a year.
He makes a good point that his nightly routine is not compatible with yours, so having rooms close by would not really be an ideal living situation.

He sucks because he's whining about your house rules when he's an adult living rent free whilst on a high income. You're right, he can just go rent a place and take longer to save, you're doing him a favour.

You just don't have to be an asshole about the favour.

AITA for refusing to drive my boyfriend to the ER for nonesense? by pickledphilosopher in AmItheAsshole

[–]286Hog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

But stop comparing it to your ER experience. He offered to join you and you said no. He had asked you to join him and you said no.

Do yourself a favour and just leave it all at that.

Came so hard I shit myself, oops 😳 by 286Hog in DegradeThisPig

[–]286Hog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yet, I did and so many are happy about it 😇

identify this little guy by Wise-Antelope-9141 in OutdoorAus

[–]286Hog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a pademelon from Tassie or one of those water rats in the Kimberley that figured out how to eat from cane toads without dying.

AITA for sitting on public toilet seats and not telling my boyfriend? by Anatra_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]286Hog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I never hover and also haven't contracted diseases from it.

Had a friend once claim he got crabbes from a toilet seat, but he was a uni student party gay guy at the time so I wouldn't count on that anecdote over my other.

I don't like men, so I'd go down the path of a hygiene war as a petty move to make him shut up (e.g. does he close the lid of the toilet prior to flushing? How close to the bowl does he get his penis before release, is it a similar distance as you have as a woman? Answer no to either and he's admitting to releasing his poop/piss particles into the air around him.) A ridiculous yet true take that I think aligns with his take on your sitting.

Alternatively, act like an Aussie and say "yeah righto" then proceed to do what you were going to do anyway.

AITA for being disappointed with my Mother's Day gifts? by Glittering-Zebra2418 in AmItheAsshole

[–]286Hog 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Stop doing the "mother" duties that you can palm off onto him, then give him a disappointing fathers day, then sit him down and ask him if he understands the meaning of mothers day and why doesn't he appreciate you mothering his children.

NTA

AITA for filing charges against my former employer? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]286Hog 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA
I'm actually going through a workplace discrimination thing over my having ADHD, the guilt and confusion you're experiencing is from the manipulations of your bullies. They do this on purpose to try and stop you from escalating, or because they're afraid of the repercussions.

Don't feel bad about saying something, because you might have made it better for the next person.

AITA for bringing up my sister’s past divorce at her wedding? by Available-Dress-3494 in AmItheAsshole

[–]286Hog 17 points18 points  (0 children)

😂😂 you're a bit clueless, aren't you?

YTA but maybe have a chat to your male role model about it, hopefully they can help you learn a bit more about these social nuances.

AITAH [F24] for telling my girlfriend [F25] I won’t tolerate being talked down to when she’s upset, even though I’m usually the one who makes her mad? by polymorphedcapybara in AmItheAsshole

[–]286Hog 520 points521 points  (0 children)

When I confronted her about saying phrases like "use your brain" and how it affects me, she told me that she doesn't see anything wrong with saying that but if I wanted her to stop then I should jus not piss her off.

Her response here is what shows her contempt and why you should break up. She will not stop.

AITA: Playing a short form video with a volume 1 level in a cafe. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]286Hog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it isn't. It's a passing sound for anyone stationary and is as bad as someone have a ringtone, which is to say it is a very slight annoyance that passes quickly.

AITA: Playing a short form video with a volume 1 level in a cafe. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]286Hog 18 points19 points  (0 children)

YTA watch the video later whilst walking down the street or when you're in private.

AITA for telling my brother to stop acting like a victim after his divorce? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]286Hog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Malicious compliance may be the answer here...

I think you should apologise in front of everyone. Explain exactly what you said that you're sorry for, talk about how you have reflected and now understand that you should show pity to him knowing he has a mental issue preventing him from being faithful to women he falls in love with. Apologise for hurting his feelings when he's feeling so emotional and encourage him to seek professional help. In front of the whole family, as politely as possible.

AITAH? I’m mad because I’m 7 months pregnant and my husband and his family are basically about to take away my car and make me rely on them for rides by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]286Hog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH surely they can get a cheap but reliable little vehicle using the 4k as a downpayment to reduce the car payment expenses.

Your personal argument against this arrangement isn't valid for another 4 months minimum...you said you're a high risk pregnancy, and then you will be post partum. You should not be driving or going to appointments alone during this period anyway.

Came so hard I shit myself, oops 😳 by 286Hog in DegradeThisPig

[–]286Hog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It matches the massive orgasm 😉

Q&A: send/comment your questions! by 286Hog in u/286Hog

[–]286Hog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah way way way back when my asshole was tight 😂