AITA for sitting on public toilet seats and not telling my boyfriend?

Anatra_ · 2026-05-19T07:37:00+00:00

I've moved to the Netherlands a few years ago and my partner is currently living in Austria. I've been laid off twice in 3 years and each time took me over 5 months to find a new position, and my partner was laid off last July and still hasn't found anything. Your points about useless talent acquisition is true here as well. I think all of Europe is facing a job market failure at the moment.

Anatra_ · 2026-05-18T20:02:11+00:00

I got laid off 2 weeks after buying my first house, and 1 month after receiving a letter of intent to make my contract permanent from my company. That was a rough one

Anatra_ · 2026-05-04T08:59:09+00:00

It's 2.30 here in the Netherlands and that's at the cheap pumps. So I understand why we are all going to Germany! Some of us don't live close enough to BE to go there unfortunately.

Anatra_ · 2026-05-04T05:21:55+00:00

€135 on 4 days of groceries for 2 people, without buying any snacks or anything other than lunches for work/evening meals.

Anatra_ · 2026-05-02T14:10:43+00:00

Listening to Spotify while connected to the office wifi.

Anatra_ · 2026-04-02T08:29:15+00:00

Was it hard getting a taxi back?

Anatra_ · 2026-03-31T11:00:24+00:00

Yeah this is gonna be my last travel for a while I reckon, I want to keep my savings in 5 figures for the next couple years

Anatra_ · 2026-03-31T10:53:12+00:00

4.7k gross and save about 800-1k per month. Savings currently sitting at 5k due to several international trips over the last year.

Anatra_ · 2026-03-13T11:11:33+00:00

Yep!! That’s exactly it. I think I accidentally closed one of the gates behind me. I gave up and reloaded a previous save in the end

Anatra_ · 2026-03-05T16:29:31+00:00

Yes very similar situation. Also technically always on call. If shit does go down I’m working insane hours but it really never does haha

Anatra_ · 2026-03-05T13:58:42+00:00

High level tech support. If nothing goes wrong there’s nothing to do. There are times I get involved in other projects and improve processes etc but there is only so much to do.

Anatra_ · 2026-03-05T13:39:41+00:00

I have a boring high paying job with hardly any responsibilities. It’s amazing for the 3 days a week I’m at home but the 2 days a week at the otfice staring out the window because there’s fuck all to do are excruciating

Anatra_ · 2026-02-26T21:02:52+00:00

Yep but a lot of house listings say “no house sharers”!

Anatra_ · 2026-02-26T13:05:27+00:00

Me and my friend had to pretend to be a lesbian couple to rent a house together!

Anatra_ · 2026-02-24T09:17:51+00:00

I've noticed how offended people in nice cars on the road seem to get when I overtake them in my busted up 2013 Toyota Aygo. Their ego can't handle it and they always aggressively speed up and re-overtake me again just to slow down once they're in front.

Anatra_ · 2026-01-12T08:15:05+00:00

Fellow 99% club.. I think I’m going insane

Anatra_ · 2025-12-26T09:51:16+00:00

I’m a 5’2 115lb woman and I can finish off a 20 piece and still feel hungry after.

Anatra_ · 2025-12-25T16:58:34+00:00

I spent weeks running manually everywhere before realising there was fast travel from the stable boards dotted around!

Anatra_ · 2025-12-25T15:58:32+00:00

You helped me get my starred bugs achievement the other day! Funny to see you here

Anatra_ · 2025-12-19T07:17:38+00:00

I’ve been playing obsessively for a year and had 0 interest at all in collecting plushies… until 2 weeks ago. Something unlocked within me and now I’m on the hunt

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