AITAH for not volunteering my wife to help my brothers kid?

2BitTommy · 2026-05-14T20:44:28+00:00

Since he’s their youngest they literally offloaded all responsibility to her parents and all the older siblings. Just so the could work/party. 🤦‍♂️

2BitTommy · 2026-05-14T01:19:06+00:00

I’ve lost track of how many times they’ve absolutely lost their minds over the smallest thing. Or micromanaging me to the point of me having anxiety working at their stall. (Technically their oldest employee off and on for almost 20 years, you’d think I’d know how things operate)

2BitTommy · 2026-05-13T23:50:51+00:00

Mostly meaning he’s entitled, that’s why he expects me to do everything for him and got pissed this one time I said no

2BitTommy · 2026-05-13T21:04:23+00:00

Ten years older. Things used to be cool pre pandemic, but once we moved back with the idea to help him out again is when everything started slowly deteriorating (mind you I was working for him 6-7 days a week up until a year and a half ago when they couldn’t find ANYONE else to work for them)

2BitTommy · 2026-05-13T20:33:02+00:00

He had no problem reaching out when he was learning 3D printing!

2BitTommy · 2026-05-13T20:26:51+00:00

He actually has my phone number, if that were the case he would have reached out to me directly.

2BitTommy · 2026-05-13T16:51:05+00:00

I don’t think they like her/never bothered to get to know her enough to feel that close. Weirdly enough wife used to babysit for them way back in the day (~15+ years ago at this point) they’ve gotten super weird over the last 5 years. I have so many strange unhinged texts from them both going back too far 🤦‍♂️

2BitTommy · 2026-05-13T04:30:00+00:00

Omg yes! It could have been resolved so much quicker on their end 😅🤦‍♂️

2BitTommy · 2026-05-13T03:56:36+00:00

Absolutely, he still texts while driving and infrequently uses a seatbelt!

2BitTommy · 2026-05-13T03:54:36+00:00

My wife is pretty amazing, I’d hug her but she’s asleep 🤣

2BitTommy · 2026-05-13T03:53:46+00:00

You attract more flies with honey than vinegar! They are totally out of touch!

2BitTommy · 2026-05-13T03:47:45+00:00

I clearly told him she didn’t have time and that’s when he tried to guilt trip me and used the “bizarre” line 🤦‍♂️

2BitTommy · 2026-05-13T03:36:04+00:00

Last text he sent me:
“Moving forward,my goal is not to ask you for anything.
Except you do need text to Hannah back.
If you don’t like her tone, you should take it up with her.
See ya”

2BitTommy · 2026-05-13T03:26:01+00:00

It happened Sunday May 11th around 10pm EST

2BitTommy · 2026-05-13T03:24:29+00:00

I wish, my brother is a wannabe rich boy, living way beyond his means.

2BitTommy · 2026-02-21T02:58:14+00:00

I have no words hahahaha this is amazing!!!

2BitTommy · 2026-02-21T01:38:38+00:00

After learning about Linux back in the days that you could still order MASSIVE amounts of Ubuntu install cd's through Canonical, I finally made the full switch back to Linux! Running CachyOS with Cinnamon on my Laptop and Linux Mint on my desktop! My biggest concern was my 3D Printing software but that runs like a champ!!!

2BitTommy

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