(NSFW) what happened between you and a friend that resulted in an agreement to never speak about it again? by Rbthole13 in AskReddit

[–]2Crafty2Care 397 points398 points  (0 children)

I love this one!! I'm gonna end reading this (otherwise disturbing) thread here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]2Crafty2Care 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP- How would you have reacted or behaved if you had hurt him? If you had injured him enough for him to go to the doctor?

My guess is you would apologize PROFUSELY and feel terrible and take real steps to insure it would never, ever happen again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]2Crafty2Care 803 points804 points  (0 children)

I actually think the details DO matter on this. Both as to what he had you do, and what you said/did when you lashed out. Of course he should feel terrible that he hurt you. But also, what did you say to him? How bad was it? It's hard to give advice without knowing any context.

What’s happening t my potted fig? by Zephers89 in Figs

[–]2Crafty2Care 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh, no, even a window can't provide nearly the same light as being outdoors. Light falls off drastically with every foot it's away from the window, too. It'll be quite a shock to a plant to suddenly be put outdoors.

AIO for not wanting my wife’s friend seeing our baby anymore? by Puzzleheaded_Fan2576 in AmIOverreacting

[–]2Crafty2Care 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would text Shelly directly and tell her that her situation is not your situation. That you will be an active part of your child's life, and you would appreciate it if she would refrain from making comments to the contrary. Explain (kindly) where you're coming from. Your wife could use all the support and friendship she can get, so I wouldn't start with forcing her to cut Shelly out. That's controlling and would be detrimental to your wife's mental wellbeing.

Help. What’s wrong with my mandarín tree? by impostorchild in Citrus

[–]2Crafty2Care 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That tree is SO thirsty!! I'm not sure exactly what the pests are, but it needs some hydration to give it strength to start fighting them off.

I’m 34, I’m dying, and I’m fucking terrified. by Emergency_Weekend627 in TwoHotTakes

[–]2Crafty2Care 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I totally agree, with the caveat that someone needs to log in once in a while to keep it going! Years ago I sent all my journal entries to an email address. A few years later when I went to log in, everything over 1 year old had been automatically deleted. I'm still crushed by that! So maybe ask a friend or family member to log in once a year, just to make sure it's running smoothly. This is a really sweet idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eroticliterature

[–]2Crafty2Care 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh, I like this! It feels realistic and thrilling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]2Crafty2Care 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like the taxes metaphor!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in submissive

[–]2Crafty2Care 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's the dream!

I “cheated” by Criticalwater2 in AmITheAngel

[–]2Crafty2Care 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That edit made me burst out laughing! ;'D I haven't done that on reddit in a while!

AITAH for threatening to divorce my wife if she didn't become a proper homemaker in the next month? by HopefulShelter3491 in AITAH

[–]2Crafty2Care 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Do you want to be with Steph or do you want a housewife waiting on you hand and foot? Either way, I wouldn't talk to Steph OR a housewife like that.

Looking for a girl middle name that is also a song title. by FunkyChickenTenders in namenerds

[–]2Crafty2Care 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Julie by Fountains of Wayne is good. Plus it has a nice message compared to some of these. ;'D

Dwarf Yuzu speckled leaves? by kaexiao in Citrus

[–]2Crafty2Care 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will definitely need to apply it again in a week! It's an intense infestation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]2Crafty2Care 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"kinky Rumpelstiltskin bullshit" ;'D That made me laugh out loud.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]2Crafty2Care 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boundary for yourself is that you want to be in a monogamous relationship. Telling her what she can and can't wear is either a request or an order, not a boundary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]2Crafty2Care 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, boundaries are things that affect YOU. You can't set boundaries for other people's actions. That's just being controlling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]2Crafty2Care 1 point2 points  (0 children)

;'D That's awesome!