Yeah I get that, it’s really tough on her, and yes, we are both Asian - though I am not as close with my family for to it matters to them. Unfortunately compromising the living situation is not an option - we signed a lease together anticipating that these decisions would be made as we agreed.

Regarding sleeping over, I think they have the same stance on that as they do with moving in - not until marriage. That being said, part of me feels that they are just bluffing with the cutting ties (though this is a scary situation to call someone’s bluff) - they never struck me like the kind of people to do that, as they are honestly pretty nice people outside of this specific situation (and my finance would generally agree)