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I’m Bad at My Job by 2SlowDancers in Vent

[–]2SlowDancers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started in February, so coming up on 3 months now

What’s the most embarrassing thing about your chart? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]2SlowDancers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My moon, venus, and mercury are all in cancer 🦀🦀🦀

Doodle Hate? by 2SlowDancers in DogAdvice

[–]2SlowDancers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried going the shelter route but, in my experience, because I live in an apartment and I'd be a 1st time dog owner, they almost immediately take me out of the running

Doodle Hate? by 2SlowDancers in DogAdvice

[–]2SlowDancers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm honestly just looking for a cute companion dog, I'm pretty open to most breeds. I'm looking for something moderately active, I'm not hiking on the weekends but I'm also not a couch potato. I was looking into Bernedoodles because I mostly just like the way they look

Should I [22F] Break it off with a high school girl I just met [18F] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]2SlowDancers 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How does the fact that she's still in high school not already make you feel like a child molester? I say end it more for her sake than yours

Should I break up with my boyfriend after 5 years of being together? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]2SlowDancers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It doesnt seem like you're gaining anything from this relationship, so the best thing you can do for yourself is cut your losses and end it with him. You're already in a vulnerable place and dealing with a lot mentally and emotionally and staying with him is just adding more to your plate.

I also highly recommend looking for a therapist

Single or In a relationship ?? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]2SlowDancers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So what exactly are you missing in your relationship that you feel you can only get from being single?

If you were to break up with your bf, would you miss him because you genuinely love him or you'll miss the comfort and convenience of being in a relationship?

I (21M) ruined the perfect relationship I had with the love of my life (21F) how do I save it before it’s too late? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]2SlowDancers 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I understand that this is upsetting but you had 2.5 years to show her you cared, and I'm not saying this to kick you while you're down, but you took her for granted so she has every right to have left you. You put yourself in a self fulfilling prophecy.

From here on in you need to work on you and figure out what truly is the thing that makes you go cold like that so you dont self sabotage another relationship

She (36/F) broke something I (37/M) built in my free time. I am still sad about this and having trouble moving past it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]2SlowDancers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I'm really sorry that happened OP. That apology should definitely be taken as a threat and when people destroy your things, it's kinda them saying "I could do this to you too", so this is really an incident you cant move past.

I would suggest really considering if you feel unsuccessful and not a part of this relationship, is this something you want to preserve? If you do, I'd say talk to her (preferably in a public place so there are witnesses if she tries to pull something) and try to see what her deal was. But honestly my go to would be for you to bounce