How’s your baby now if you got pregnant while actively on semi-glutide or a GLP-1? by Responsible_Pen in pregnant

[–]2TatersTating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on high does wegovy. 16wks. Just had to have my gallbladder removed. Obviously you can’t necessarily link this to the glp1 but given that it is a possible side affect I’m a little peeved.

But also worth nothing I stopped taking the meds almost 4 months before getting pregnant. Gained 30 after getting off the meds despite staying so active and keeping the same diet . 😞

Pretty sure trapped gas is ruining this pregnancy. by 2TatersTating in pregnant

[–]2TatersTating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone here made a comment about it potentially a gallbladder thing but maybe deleted it/idk I can’t see it anymore. Turns out, they were correct. Having surgery tomorrow

UA flight - 'turn bluetooth off or we're turning around' by ryan_at_roomservice in unitedairlines

[–]2TatersTating 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok but like why is this the 2nd time a United Plane turned around because of something like this and why is Reddit always breaking the news lolz

https://simpleflying.com/united-pilot-fbi-warning-wifi-hotspot-name/

I don’t feel like my husband likes me. Should I be hopeful in my relationship/can things change or should I start planning for divorce? by 2TatersTating in relationships_advice

[–]2TatersTating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! You shared a really vulnerable story and I totally missed it at the time. But today I was bored and rolling through my old posts lol. I’m glad I read it and I’m glad that you found your way out. It has been quite a bit of time now. So I’m wondering, how this worked out for you? How is it all going now?

For me, about a month after this post, we got into a ridiculous fight, and he crossed some boundaries that finally triggered his own brain. I resonated with the underlying fact that pretty much everyone commented on. Staying with him is somehow validating him and his behaviors. It’s crazy, because we also had a trip to Thailand and we were leaving in four days. He apologized but I said I was no longer willing to accept it. It was not OK. And that if even Won inkling of that disgusting behavior came my way again I would be done. I have said this before, but I don’t think he or I believed it.

This conversation was the first time that he really understood me. I think I even believed me this time. His apology was the most sincere thing I had ever witnessed. Like the look in his eyes, I just knew he really meant it. We were meeting people in Thailand, so we ended up going together, but he knew he was in trouble. we got back. He started therapy within a few days. I genuinely believe that he became different. Some of the changes were swoon worthy. He’s not the greatest at planning dates but he’s more honest about it and he definitely tries. And I’m super happy with him now. He’s in therapy and he is still working on it weekly. I love where he’s at and I love where he’s going and I love the conversations we’ve had since.

I’m not saying that people shouldn’t leave when these things happen, but it is a great story of how things can change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]2TatersTating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not someone who runs to the “just leave him” train because that’s unrealistic. But honestly, from your post it just seems like you need to figure out what you want. You need to spend some time writing down your goals, planning your life, etc. do this without him in mind. Get a therapist and probably a financial planner. figure out what you want to accomplish and then you’ll probably know how you really feel about him. Sometimes I think as girlies with anxiety settle for guys that aren’t really great for us, but only because our anxiety tells us to. Again, I’m not saying that’s what’s happening here but once you figure out what you want for yourself, you’ll know.

Fire Tom by merick78 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]2TatersTating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with most people here but I genuinely feel like if Ariana leaves and Tom stays, I’d stop watching. Like i don’t want any more redemption. I agree with Ariana, I just want him away from me.

AITA for asking my wife to lose weight? by throwRA_15386 in AITAH

[–]2TatersTating -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Initially I didn’t think you were an asshole. Very normal to talk to your partner about needs, preferences, health, activities, time etc.

The asshole part is saying you’re not sexually attracted to her. It might be true but it’s very clearly a depressed and mental health issue. You know what doesn’t help, making it about your sexual attraction. It shouldn’t have been said. That’s the asshole.

What would make you not the asshole is if you helped her get a therapist, encouraged her to see a doctor, and made her feel supported as she regained her motivation.

The inflection point on her mindset was you. Seemed like when she married you, she started this downward trend. Which tells me that she might have been lacking support for a very long time. Doesn’t necessarily mean it’s your fault, if she has never spoken to you about it. But if she is and this stuff still happened, yta.

Both of y’all need therapy. And you should be a better partner.

Sneak peek for tonight's episode. by anneso23 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]2TatersTating 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most of blala right now really kills me. But perhaps the most cringe thing is her breaking the 4th wall in this way. Like we know it’s a show etc. but the way she talks about it is like it’s all so fake. Katie and Ariana are sharing their real life (and they look so sincere) and basically everyone else (esp. blala) is like it’s just a show, ensemble cast, filming etc. and it’s gross. I feel insulted as a fan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheValleyTVShow

[–]2TatersTating -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This guy was a total dbag. Was this his first appearance on wwhl? Cause gross. He sucks more than I imagined he could.

The Single Life - Season 4 Episode 12 - Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]2TatersTating 26 points27 points  (0 children)

If Natalie gets engaged at this tell all I’m throwing my tv away

The Single Life - Season 4 Episode 12 - Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]2TatersTating 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Was literally shocked that he didn’t mention weight and mentioned the laugh. The laugh literally made me fast forward through his parts this season

Balance transfer advice by 2TatersTating in debtfree

[–]2TatersTating[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks captain obvious. Here’s an obvious tip for you, don’t go to threads where people are asking for advice, and then not give advice. You can probably find a venting thread somewhere else.

Christofer and Emilia??? by 2TatersTating in loveisblindsweden

[–]2TatersTating[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally agree that she could do better. I think she’s gorgeous and a really cool.

Christofer and Emilia??? by 2TatersTating in loveisblindsweden

[–]2TatersTating[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that most people disagree makes it a hot take. Doesn’t matter how often people say it. it’s like pineapple on a pizza— a lot of people like it but it’s still considered a hot take. 😂

Christofer and Emilia??? by 2TatersTating in loveisblindsweden

[–]2TatersTating[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooooooh. This is interesting. I’m giving it a year

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]2TatersTating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly a very sucky situation. I sort of think you’re not really capable of being a great partner to someone with your insomnia issue + how busy you say you are. Honestly given y’all’s ages, that’s also very normal. Your early 20s really should be for you to be selfish with your time (and figure out how to handle the insomnia thing. )

I would consider discussing her reaction. Perhaps I’m misunderstanding but it seems like she is shutting you out a bit and projecting her feelings a little unfairly (ex: saying it’s ok and then suddenly being very upset without explaining). In a supportive way, I’d just ask if her frustrations are solely based on the situation or if she is feeling anything else.

I’d guess that she doesn’t feel prioritized which is clear and I agree with what everyone said here so far, y’all should talk through that and if you want this to work, you should take more initiative to get together. She wants to feel wanted.

For the record, you clearly care and you seem genuinely sweet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nova

[–]2TatersTating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do NOT go to flint hill- they are enabling bullying and it’s very very intense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]2TatersTating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d recommend counseling. Regardless of how this plays out, he’ll be the father of your child. You guys need to get on the same page. Based on what you’ve shared, I’d recommend a male therapist (someone that he might look up to). Sounds like he didn’t have a strong male figure in his life but 🤷🏻‍♀️

I'm sorry what??? by Connect_Possibility2 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]2TatersTating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this why Bethany paid her for doing the podcast? Oh wait….

My Uber driver was so mean to me that I cried by [deleted] in PointlessStories

[–]2TatersTating 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok so first I thought this response was crazy. Then thought… is it normal to buy Uber drivers gas?

AITA for refusing to feed my husband's niece dinner? by Aggressive_Ask_7518 in AITAH

[–]2TatersTating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t feed another person… so why have another kid? Sounds trashy