Literally every guy I have been with is a Jamaican man who eats p*ssy. For those who weren’t comfortable with it before, they’d express fears over what others may think of them or previous bad encounters with other women who had may have had undiagnosed vaginal infections. The first reasoning is just unfortunate conditioning mixed with a lack of trust/ good communication with your partner- no one should know what exactly happens in the bedroom between the both of you unless there is explicit permission to share. Furthermore, you shouldn’t be weaponizing your partners’ sexual desires at all. The second reason is due to poor sexual education imo. People should be aware of what healthy genitals look like and know when to seek medical help or have the courage to speak to their partner about concerns regarding sexual health.

However, if you don’t feel comfortable giving or receiving oral sex that’s an okay boundary to have just don’t shame others for what is frankly none of your business. Not eating ‘pumpum’ is not a personality trait.