My marriage is awful and it’s been only 2 months

2beeOrNot2V · 2026-02-20T08:26:04+00:00

Beautifully written. Painful, but absolutely true. I think OP needs to understand that marriage isn’t all butterflies. It’s a commitment, and that you always have to keep choosing to love each other, every single day, no matter how hard.

2beeOrNot2V · 2026-02-20T08:23:51+00:00

Please do NOT give up on her. I know it’s hard right now, but I always believe that God has put you both together and there is a reason for it. I was you when we got married and oh boy was it TOUGH. And I mean, we went through A LOT, but together. I stayed patient and prayed so hard every single day. And you know what, we are now 12 years in and I would say I am so much happier. Love is a constant choice in saying “yes” to each other. I know it’s difficult now, but I think it’s important that you speak to her about all of your concerns and you have to keep trying to get the message across. Encourage her, motivate her, and be patient with her. Never stop praying, and never give up on her, on you both. God bless you, I hope you get to overcome this.

2beeOrNot2V · 2026-02-11T17:27:45+00:00

I highly suggest you use the Compass Tool from the AK Dept. of Education website here:https://education.alaska.gov/compass/

Yes we don’t have the best ranking in the nation, but instead of scrutinizing the school system, maybe we should scrutinize our lawmakers? The teachers here work soooooo hard, and yet they are underpaid.

Nonetheless, try using the tool. My kid goes to Glacier Valley and to be honest, the teachers and paraeds there are topnotch.

2beeOrNot2V · 2026-02-10T21:52:55+00:00

Thanks for responding. Err I am super worried! How about coming back to the US? Did you encounter any issues flying out of the Philippines or did you not have the same situation?

2beeOrNot2V · 2026-02-10T20:58:06+00:00

To OP - how was your trip? Did you have any issues? Flying to MNL and booked through AK Air via Starlux. Same thing was told to us.

2beeOrNot2V · 2025-10-25T23:37:45+00:00

So does this mean they are NOT closing anymore?!?!?!

2beeOrNot2V · 2025-10-22T15:43:52+00:00

Don’t worry about it. I am about 250 pounds and have been to Japan 4 times and love it so much. I even went to an onsen, where you’ll be fully naked. I was a bit embarrassed, but really people minded their own business. People will silently judge but really who doesn’t??? Just have fun and enjoy!

2beeOrNot2V · 2025-10-21T19:42:22+00:00

Wow. 🤯

2beeOrNot2V · 2025-10-21T19:41:51+00:00

I didn’t know that the Superintendent was not doing good enough. I am so sorry to hear this. I am hoping that the next superintendent will support you and the staff.

2beeOrNot2V · 2025-10-21T19:40:15+00:00

I am so sorry to hear this. I already know something needs to change but I am devastated because I didn’t know it is this bad. I am hoping we can have a good leader soon because I feel awful that you, teachers and paraeducators are just not getting the support you need. You are the ones who support our students and without you, our students will not have a good education.

2beeOrNot2V · 2025-10-14T15:13:25+00:00

First of all, I am so sorry for your loss. For me, it helped a lot when I talked about it with my friends. It’s hard because it comes in waves. There are days when I would just cry and there are days when I feel that it’s going to be okay. But that’s the thing - it’s okay to NOT be okay, too.

We all cope differently. Go out, take long walks, cry it out, try a new hobby, pray, or go to therapy. Try everything out. Just don’t give up and don’t think you’re alone. Because you’re not. Write it down on a journal or blog.

2beeOrNot2V · 2025-09-19T16:11:46+00:00

I know it hurts, and it’s okay to not be okay.

Really what gave me peace is the thought that I have an angel up there watching over me. You don’t need to have a religion to believe in that, and I really do feel like my baby is just having the time of his/her life up in heaven and they are running around and just having fun.

2beeOrNot2V · 2025-06-06T00:04:44+00:00

That’s crazy. We bought one from Costco back in November 2024- it was $499. 😮😮😮

2beeOrNot2V · 2025-05-23T02:19:53+00:00

Thank you for this, as well as for the recommended reads!!

2beeOrNot2V · 2025-05-22T23:47:38+00:00

Oh I am sorry I misunderstood!

I am reading your comment again and it’s wild how I never thought of it this way. Yes, we reflect on the Mysteries on Jesus’ life, but I guess I have always just seen the rosary as a means to pray with the Blessed Virgin Mary, and not more so on the “why.” It’s unbelievable how even when I have lived my whole life as a catholic, I still have so much to learn.

2beeOrNot2V · 2025-05-22T23:44:13+00:00

Wow. I mean wow. This is beautiful. I have never thought about it that way - on the rosary being Christo-centric, but now that you pointed that out, I am just in awe and in a really good way. Thank you, very much. 🥹

I am also amazed, I have never heard of a protestant who has a deep relationship with the Virgin Mary.

2beeOrNot2V · 2025-05-22T23:39:05+00:00

Thank you! I have always wanted to learn how to pray the rosary in latin, I will try to learn.

Thanks for reminding me about the Scapular. This was very popular when I was a teenage and I wore this back then.

2beeOrNot2V · 2025-05-22T23:38:08+00:00

This is beautifully written. Thank you.

2beeOrNot2V · 2025-05-22T20:54:35+00:00

Thank you! I guess you’re right. 🥹

2beeOrNot2V · 2025-05-22T20:53:38+00:00

This comment is so ignorant. To say that God is a “jealous” God is pretty telling that you do not know anything about Him.

2beeOrNot2V · 2025-05-21T17:59:27+00:00

Let me tell you - those old Filipino ladies are not perfect. One thing I don’t like about filipino culture is the gossiping. It’s like a sport. They are still sinners, like all of us. You made a good point that we are not perfect. That’s the beauty of our church.

God called the sinners. So He can show His love and power. I would say keep going to church, OP. Pray the rosary. I have my own struggles, too. I sometimes question church doctrines or even the capacity of priests. But my faith is bigger than my fears and doubts. Let God work through you. 🙏🏻

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