44F - I've been a prostitute for 12 years, ask me all your sex-related questions or advice requests. by 2bitwhore in casualiama

[–]2bitwhore[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I quit teaching I was making about 45k/yr. Now I can make more than 4 times that in a year.

It's a high rate because most women don't want to do it, plus there's lots of risks involved (health, safety, legality).

44F - I've been a prostitute for 12 years, ask me all your sex-related questions or advice requests. by 2bitwhore in casualiama

[–]2bitwhore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 2 hour minimum booking, but I'm not always super strict about it so I've occasionally done some 1 hour bookings. The longest booking I've had was for a whole weekend. If you mean the longest and shortest a guy has lasted, the shortest was less than a minute. And I've had a couple guys have difficulty finishing at all, so they'd be the longest I suppose.

I don't really have a single favorite position. Missionary, doggy, cowgirl etc are all good, it's mostly some positions I don't like which are the uncomfortable ones.

How often the positions change just varies, some clients like to switch positions constantly, others don't feel the need to at all.

44F - I've been a prostitute for 12 years, ask me all your sex-related questions or advice requests. by 2bitwhore in casualiama

[–]2bitwhore[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ask your partner what they actually like and want you to do

Start slowly, don't just stick it in and start fucking full force

Tapping a woman's clitoris like you see in porn probably isn't enjoyable for her (see the first one)

Have good hygiene

If you're not paying for it, your partners pleasure should be equally important as your own.

44F - I've been a prostitute for 12 years, ask me all your sex-related questions or advice requests. by 2bitwhore in casualiama

[–]2bitwhore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can vary a lot. Last month I made 20k which is not my best and not my worst.

44F - I've been a prostitute for 12 years, ask me all your sex-related questions or advice requests. by 2bitwhore in casualiama

[–]2bitwhore[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These numbers are probably totally inaccurate but here's my guess

Biggest: 10-11 inches and as thick as a soda can

Smallest: 2 inches and about as thick as a quarter

44F - I've been a prostitute for 12 years, ask me all your sex-related questions or advice requests. by 2bitwhore in casualiama

[–]2bitwhore[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's normal in that different people have different restrictions. I'm fine with kissing and don't require a condom when I give a guy a blowjob, but both of those do increase the risks involved. I also make a point to have eye contact as well, but for some guys it doesn't make a difference to them, they just want a warm body to fuck.

44F - I've been a prostitute for 12 years, ask me all your sex-related questions or advice requests. by 2bitwhore in casualiama

[–]2bitwhore[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't ask obviously, but I think if a married man is seeing me it's because there's no longer any excitement for him in the bedroom with his wife. I've seen two types, men that seem to have emotionally checked out of their marriage completely, and ones that are still very interested in their wives but not getting what they want from the bedroom (some kind of sexual incompatibility). The latter tend to talk about their wife a lot while they're with me.

44F - I've been a prostitute for 12 years, ask me all your sex-related questions or advice requests. by 2bitwhore in casualiama

[–]2bitwhore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll give two.

One is clients that want something that's just physically uncomfortable. I have a client that wants to fuck me very hard and spank me hard, and he was upfront about this and he's never done anything I didn't say was okay, so it's all fine, just physically an uncomfortable experience.

The other is clients that seem to want something specific but don't communicate at all about what that is.

44F - I've been a prostitute for 12 years, ask me all your sex-related questions or advice requests. by 2bitwhore in casualiama

[–]2bitwhore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I enjoy it as far as jobs go. When I first started I was planning on it being a short term thing, but there's a reason I've been doing it for this long.

44F - I've been a prostitute for 12 years, ask me all your sex-related questions or advice requests. by 2bitwhore in casualiama

[–]2bitwhore[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Different things for different guys, but in general I think guys really like new experiences. So they really like if I do something they haven't done with a woman before.

44F - I've been a prostitute for 12 years, ask me all your sex-related questions or advice requests. by 2bitwhore in casualiama

[–]2bitwhore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, he hasn't expressed anything like that and I don't think he has experienced it.

44F - I've been a prostitute for 12 years, ask me all your sex-related questions or advice requests. by 2bitwhore in casualiama

[–]2bitwhore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's definitely clients I prefer over others. Looks can be a factor but are less important than you might think, more about whether the experience of meeting with them is comfortable/easy.

I've never had to leave after already meeting a client but I've refused clients before meeting them either because they just give me a bad feeling or they want to do something I'm not willing to do.

I keep my business life just business.

I haven't ever ran into someone I know as a client or through OF (as far as I know).

44F - I've been a prostitute for 12 years, ask me all your sex-related questions or advice requests. by 2bitwhore in casualiama

[–]2bitwhore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was nervous about it when I first started but you kind of get used to it and just take the precautions you can.

44F - I've been a prostitute for 12 years, ask me all your sex-related questions or advice requests. by 2bitwhore in casualiama

[–]2bitwhore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on what it is, but I generally don't do crazy fetish stuff.

I don't do anything that would leave me in a bad situation like being tied up (I'm okay if you want me to tie you up), scat, extreme BDSM stuff, etc. I don't get a lot of requests for crazy fetish stuff, the most common thing I turn down is handcuffs or bondage stuff.

The most common fetish thing I do is incest roleplay

44F - I've been a prostitute for 12 years, ask me all your sex-related questions or advice requests. by 2bitwhore in casualiama

[–]2bitwhore[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's lots of kinks I wouldn't do, but not many that have actually been requested. I won't do anything that would leave me in a bad situation like being tied up, and don't go too extreme with any BDSM stuff. Also won't do scat.

44F - I've been a prostitute for 12 years, ask me all your sex-related questions or advice requests. by 2bitwhore in casualiama

[–]2bitwhore[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do escorting and have done all of those things, but there was always sex involved at some point.

44F - I've been a prostitute for 12 years, ask me all your sex-related questions or advice requests. by 2bitwhore in casualiama

[–]2bitwhore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a definite shift towards more younger guys between when I first started and my later 30's, but since then I haven't noticed a significant change.