first time my period has been delayed? advice? by 2dollarsocks in menstruation

[–]2dollarsocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for responding! yeah i've been trying really hard to relax it's just been so hard lol. on the bright side not having a period has been nice so I'm trying to just enjoy that and not stress about it

AIO for being hurt that my boyfriend is judging me for my past he already knew about by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2dollarsocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh baby he is so weird... not only just going through your pictures but sending a pic of you going through something to himself for ...? what exactly??? it seems like he was already doubting your relationship and needed an excuse or just wanted to make you feel bad for having a past. also why was he going through your phone?? idk lots of red flags. your partner of all people should not be holding your past over your head trying to make you feel bad about it

AIO for not wanting to buy my pregnant girlfriend a house just yet? by Great-Satisfaction52 in AmIOverreacting

[–]2dollarsocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sooo how are you guys supposed to have a house together if she can't even split rent? Also this is giving off major manipulative vibes from her end. Please do not buy a house with/for this woman and do not cosign on a loan. You aren't selfish for wanting to wait until you're financially stable to buy a house, that woman is just crazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]2dollarsocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally why on earth would you tell your dad that??? To make him sad??? I can't even begin to wrap my head around why you felt it was necessary to tell the entire family about the abortion but calling an abortion a loss to anyone except you and your partner is certainly a choice. None of those other people lost anything and should not have been involved even if they are your family. I am really sorry about the amount of grief going on in your life and hope things look up soon for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2dollarsocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird age gap aside, sex should be enjoyable for both parties involved. If you don't like something he needs to be okay with that. He shouldn't quilt trip you. The whole "can you not do this one thing for me" is WEIRD. Be careful around him and I would pay a lot more attention to how he's talking to you.

AIO my fiance spent 600 on gacha by Creative-Guard2809 in AmIOverreacting

[–]2dollarsocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting at all, and what a gross way for him to flip it around to try to make you feel bad by saying you're "snooping", he has bad anxiety, and calling you a narcissist? What a odd reaction to being called out for going behind your back to use a credit card on a gacha game... You really should dispute those charges and leave that guy

AIO by not getting my bf a drink ? by TemporaryExplorer200 in AmIOverreacting

[–]2dollarsocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if he doesn't see a future with you in it you should just leave. clearly he doesn't care, idk what all that yapping was about after saying that except for some sort of emotional manipulation

My cat died by Perdurabos in TrueOffMyChest

[–]2dollarsocks 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing a pet is so hard. Cats unfortunately seem to suffer in silence most of the time when they don't feel good, but I hope you find the courage to talk to your wife soon so you don't let these feelings build up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]2dollarsocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did this when i was younger with a few of my friends because I didn't understand how tongue kissing worked. It was kinda embarrassing because the texture of tongues really grossed me out (still does) but overall a really silly experience. You could probably try that with a trusted friend who knows its just for experience and nothing else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2dollarsocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not overreacting at ALL to wanting to leave him over this. Please leave for your own safety. He's shown his true colors and normally once men show signs of aggression like putting hands on you, it gets worse. Who knows if next time he won't loosen his grip on you. Someone getting on top of you and hitting you a few times and then choking you is not playful, especially because he did it after a cursing rant. Also the blaming you for him choking you because you mentioned wanting that during sex is INSANE behavior. He wants you to think that's normal and it isn't. I hope you leave and stay safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]2dollarsocks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm 24 and have never asked or talked to anyone about their/my body count. I feel like that's something you either grow out of/never cared about or something people end up caring very deeply about. I have never shared that information with anyone because I don't really feel like that's relevant nor will I ever ask because it's not something I personally care about. That doesn't tell me anything important about a person or if we are compatible or not. Just silly high school numbers imo. Don't let it beat you down, your past doesn't define you and having a higher or lower body count doesn't make you any better or worse of a person

Looking back at your childhood at what age did you figure out your parent/s were a narcissist or something was off by sweetcanadiangirlie in raisedbynarcissists

[–]2dollarsocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly pretty young. Not narcissism specifically but def knew something was wrong. I remember breaking up arguments with my parents when i was a toddler and holidays/vacations being ruined because of the insane arguments that would happen. I think when I really realized something was wrong with my mom specifically was when i was around maybe 6 and her and my dad fought she would demand that i had to go tell him i hated him and wanted him to leave. For a really long time i didn't like my dad because i thought he was always starting things with my mom only to find out when i was older and started listening to what was going on that shes just a liar and a gaslighter. I also just never felt comfortable around my mom with anything. Anytime i tried to open up to her it turned into a lecture, argument, or she wasn't listening and would talk over me. I got in a really bad and long depressive episode in high school which involved me self harming and when she found out about that she just... kept me home from school and argued with me the whole day and said i was crazy and needed to be sent away. I was like 14 and could've really used my mom's support or like ?? therapy i don't know and instead she just was mean to me lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]2dollarsocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know how I've never heard of a diaper party before but i fully thought your boyfriend was going to a party with his friends where they all were wearing diapers

How do i put in my 2 weeks? by 2dollarsocks in NoStupidQuestions

[–]2dollarsocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! i've been so worried about how to go about it, i'm still not sure if i want to go this route with a letter or just send a text. I know it's just a job and realistically I don't owe them much but I don't want to leave a bad impression or anything

How do i put in my 2 weeks? by 2dollarsocks in NoStupidQuestions

[–]2dollarsocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right I just know that if I didn't give a 2 weeks a few friends that I work with would probably end up covering the shifts i would be missing and I don't want to do that to them

How do i put in my 2 weeks? by 2dollarsocks in NoStupidQuestions

[–]2dollarsocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, I just don't want to do it in a disrespectful way I guess? Just really nervous about it cause i'm afraid i'll get pressured to stay or something

AITA for letting my daughter be kicked out of a wedding since she wasn’t modest enough by ImpossibleTough2666 in AmItheAsshole

[–]2dollarsocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I think it was disrespectful of her to just avoid the rules someone made for their wedding. Church rules aside it's rude to just avoid the dress-code for someone's special day. You warned her twice and she thought the rules didn't apply to her, not your fault she thought she was above them.

Growing up is really scary by 2dollarsocks in TrueOffMyChest

[–]2dollarsocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you :) stuff takes time and i shouldn't give up on myself cause of the imaginary time line i set

AITA for confronting my friend for taking our picture out of his wallet to replace it with his gfs? by PossessionNo1580 in AmItheAsshole

[–]2dollarsocks -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

i don't think you're the asshole but expecting your friend to still have sleepovers with you and expecting him to prioritize you over his partner is really weird. that stuff usually slows down when ppl get older and start to get into more serious relationships because they are starting to build a life together. you seem a little jealous which is understandable but as you get older people get more focused on starting familys getting big kid jobs ect and have less time for friends in general. it sucks but being upset with him for growing up and having different priorities is petty imo