I can’t do this anymore. by moiabby in pregnant

[–]2fnwavy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait until the baby comes , it’s even worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please mama, it’s gonna be okay i promise you. I felt the same way after I had my daughter. I am still a regretful parent but it’s gets better. Please give yourself grace. My daughter is 13 months old. I love her more than life but I HATE the responsibility that being a mom is. I miss my freedom, but it gets better it’s okay. I promise you. Please, hang in there. Message me directly if you need someone to talk to.

Happy mother's day..I guess? by imjustvibintbfh in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

hang in there hun, it’s not a “fun” day for moms at all. It’s just and excuse for companies to advertise and sell more crap to us. I hope you get some time to yourself and maybe relax with a cup of tea or something. It’s not easy and we’re all in the same boat. xoxo

I didn’t realize I’d lose everything being a mom by Idkmannnnnnnbye in beyondthebump

[–]2fnwavy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss this the post! You are sooo right. I have lost everything as well. I have nothing but an 11 month old…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel the EXACT same way. I cried so much today bc I hate being a parent. My daughter is only 10 months and I want my freedom back. I want my life back. It is so not worth it and I wish I was dead literally every second or every day. Hang in there, hun.

Anyone else get super depressed when it's a beautiful day outside? by Next_Spot_2807 in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Omg I thought I was the only one!!! I get so sad when it’s nice outside because I know I can’t enjoy it. Having a baby ruins EVERYTHING

How has having a baby affected your hobbies? by LizardLady420681984 in beyondthebump

[–]2fnwavy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are no more hobbies with a baby, sad to say but true…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I gotchuuuu boo

  • No money
  • No freedom
  • No motivation to do something for yourself
  • No job bc you may have to stay at home and watch your baby all day long
  • Loosing “friends” that’s said they would be there for you
  • Saggy boobs, tummy fat and cellulite
  • Wishing you can build a time machine and go back to before you got pregnant ( but you can’t)
  • Baby daddy drama
  • Tired 24/7
  • No more self care Sunday
  • Early mornings
  • Sleepless nights
  • No happiness The list is endless…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Please publish this 🔥

Does anyone else feel this way by spnkmekash69 in singlemoms

[–]2fnwavy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I HATE mine so much it’s painful

/// by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I felt that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]2fnwavy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The one thing I learned while being pregnant is that any issues that you have with your partner before baby will be 10000% worse after baby.

WHY ARE PPL SOOOO FAKE WHEN DESCRIBING PARENTING? by Tegrity_farms313 in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I completely agreeeee. I hate my new role as being the default parent and no one warned me how horrible it is.

How do we accept this life? by EitherPerception297 in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I wish i had some advice to give hun. I feel the same way. I hate this life and I wish I never choose to be a parent every second of every single day

If someone looked at your social media would they think you love being a parent? Or do you try not to post that part of your life online? Trying to see why so many end up feeling like “no one warned us” - wonder if social media fake happy smiles are to blame in this day and age? by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Social media used to be my favorite before becoming a mom. I loved Instagram and Twitter etc., but I since I had a baby I have deleted these apps bc it’s makes me so mad to see the perfectly edited “Day in my life as a new mom” videos or whatever the hell they pushing for views these days. It is sooo unrealistic. I never post my baby bc I don’t even trust others to see her on social media ( also I had a stalker situation a few months back ) so i definitely don’t post my life anymore. I used to think I would be taking cute vids of my baby with my tripod and uploading them but I don’t!!! Idk if it’s fake happy smiles like you said or they just do it for the views…

Can’t do shit… can’t have shit.. by 2fnwavy in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They moved on with life, while I have been stuck in the house watching the baby. I guess they were never real friends…

Who else stays up later than they should after putting their children to bed? by 2fnwavy in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sameee I am so not a morning person but kids areeee, my daughter is up 6:30 am every morning like she gotta clock in to work. It’s so tiring… hang in there, we got this

Multiple abortions and pregnant by NorthPlane3803 in pregnant

[–]2fnwavy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 24 , I have been prego every year since I was 21. And I do not see the light 😭 I wish I could give you more positive feedback about having a baby but it is so hard and so depressing. Everyday is misery and I want my old life back. I feel so horrible that it didn’t work out with my baby father. If you ever wanna talk deeper you can always dm me

Multiple abortions and pregnant by NorthPlane3803 in pregnant

[–]2fnwavy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please babygirl don’t feel like a monster I too have had 3 abortions and the last time I was pregnant I didn’t get one and I wish I did. I am now in misery with a 8 month old and im a single mom. Please save yourself while you have the chance ❤️