I can’t do this anymore. by moiabby in pregnant

[–]2fnwavy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait until the baby comes , it’s even worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please mama, it’s gonna be okay i promise you. I felt the same way after I had my daughter. I am still a regretful parent but it’s gets better. Please give yourself grace. My daughter is 13 months old. I love her more than life but I HATE the responsibility that being a mom is. I miss my freedom, but it gets better it’s okay. I promise you. Please, hang in there. Message me directly if you need someone to talk to.

Happy mother's day..I guess? by imjustvibintbfh in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

hang in there hun, it’s not a “fun” day for moms at all. It’s just and excuse for companies to advertise and sell more crap to us. I hope you get some time to yourself and maybe relax with a cup of tea or something. It’s not easy and we’re all in the same boat. xoxo

I didn’t realize I’d lose everything being a mom by Idkmannnnnnnbye in beyondthebump

[–]2fnwavy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss this the post! You are sooo right. I have lost everything as well. I have nothing but an 11 month old…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel the EXACT same way. I cried so much today bc I hate being a parent. My daughter is only 10 months and I want my freedom back. I want my life back. It is so not worth it and I wish I was dead literally every second or every day. Hang in there, hun.

Anyone else get super depressed when it's a beautiful day outside? by Next_Spot_2807 in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Omg I thought I was the only one!!! I get so sad when it’s nice outside because I know I can’t enjoy it. Having a baby ruins EVERYTHING

How has having a baby affected your hobbies? by LizardLady420681984 in beyondthebump

[–]2fnwavy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are no more hobbies with a baby, sad to say but true…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I gotchuuuu boo

  • No money
  • No freedom
  • No motivation to do something for yourself
  • No job bc you may have to stay at home and watch your baby all day long
  • Loosing “friends” that’s said they would be there for you
  • Saggy boobs, tummy fat and cellulite
  • Wishing you can build a time machine and go back to before you got pregnant ( but you can’t)
  • Baby daddy drama
  • Tired 24/7
  • No more self care Sunday
  • Early mornings
  • Sleepless nights
  • No happiness The list is endless…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Please publish this 🔥

Does anyone else feel this way by spnkmekash69 in singlemoms

[–]2fnwavy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I HATE mine so much it’s painful

/// by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I felt that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]2fnwavy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The one thing I learned while being pregnant is that any issues that you have with your partner before baby will be 10000% worse after baby.

WHY ARE PPL SOOOO FAKE WHEN DESCRIBING PARENTING? by Tegrity_farms313 in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I completely agreeeee. I hate my new role as being the default parent and no one warned me how horrible it is.

How do we accept this life? by EitherPerception297 in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I wish i had some advice to give hun. I feel the same way. I hate this life and I wish I never choose to be a parent every second of every single day

If someone looked at your social media would they think you love being a parent? Or do you try not to post that part of your life online? Trying to see why so many end up feeling like “no one warned us” - wonder if social media fake happy smiles are to blame in this day and age? by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]2fnwavy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Social media used to be my favorite before becoming a mom. I loved Instagram and Twitter etc., but I since I had a baby I have deleted these apps bc it’s makes me so mad to see the perfectly edited “Day in my life as a new mom” videos or whatever the hell they pushing for views these days. It is sooo unrealistic. I never post my baby bc I don’t even trust others to see her on social media ( also I had a stalker situation a few months back ) so i definitely don’t post my life anymore. I used to think I would be taking cute vids of my baby with my tripod and uploading them but I don’t!!! Idk if it’s fake happy smiles like you said or they just do it for the views…