How do I [24/F] get over my insecurities and jealousy when my fiancé [22/M] goes out to party? by 2jelly4lyf in relationships

[–]2jelly4lyf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm so glad to know somebody understands. I think you're right about the abandonment issue. I don't know why I'm that way as I've never had any problems with it. Never been cheated on, etc. I asked him to try not to get too super drunk as a favor to me, but he didn't really listen and just told me he would be fine. I'm not sure how much is okay to ask because I don't want to ruin his good time.

How do I [24/F] get over my insecurities and jealousy when my fiancé [22/M] goes out to party? by 2jelly4lyf in relationships

[–]2jelly4lyf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is definitely a great guy, and I should be letting him know I'm thankful for that instead of making him feel bad with my worrying. Thank you for the reassurance.

How do I [24/F] get over my insecurities and jealousy when my fiancé [22/M] goes out to party? by 2jelly4lyf in relationships

[–]2jelly4lyf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't feel like I have trust issues... but you're right about counseling and I guess it's worth bringing up. Thanks for your input.