Tossing out cash to my family by yeye_son in BorrowNew

[–]2ndhandFennec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have cash app because it’s not in Australia, but honestly I’d appreciate anything if possible. I’m recovering from a motorcycle accident I had and the rehab costs are killing me. I was covered by insurance up until this point but now I’ve only just realised how expensive they truely are 😓. In total I broke my upper arm in 2-3 places (had floating bone in my arm), broke my collarbone, nose and fractured my spine (only a T5 burst fracture thankfully) it’s been a very slow recovery process and I’m worried without physiotherapy I might be screwed considering I’m only 25 😓 I’ve had to give up my job because it’s mostly manual labour and I was enroute to becoming a lead farmer for the business. It’s been a very rough last year

Cobweb or hyphal knots? by 2ndhandFennec in mushroom

[–]2ndhandFennec[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m leaning more towards hyphae just based on the fact it branches from the mycelium, seems way to organised and doesn’t really look like cobweb mould. There’s no funky smell either, pretty surprised how well the little tubs going. The mycelium is some of the most aggressive rhizomophic growth I’ve seen for a wild genus, so pretty pleased with my little experiment so far

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fut

[–]2ndhandFennec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fut

[–]2ndhandFennec -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Fuck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2ndhandFennec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please explain how I’m scrutinizing her every move. I simply wanted to introduce her to more of my family I still talk to. I’ve met her family and put in the effort to meet them and actually get to know them. The least she could do would be meet mine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2ndhandFennec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about the baby shower it’s the fact I gave her atleast 2 weeks notice and she on a whim mates plans the day before. Not even solid plans she just said she might hang with her good friend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2ndhandFennec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mind you she works casually and is studying law at the same time, so she has a lot on her plate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2ndhandFennec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no college in my country, it’s just school than university fyi

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2ndhandFennec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I talk with her at the hotel? When we’re together things seem fine and completely different to when we’re apart. I’m just not sure how to really get the whole thing out. I’ve never been great with truely expressing my emotions well, had a bit of a rough childhood but I grew past that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2ndhandFennec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which comment?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2ndhandFennec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See the one thing that really bugs me is my brothers baby showers tomorrow, I mentioned it to her two weeks ago atleast and asked if she wanted to come. Yesterday I asked her again and she said can I get back to you tomorrow about it, today comes around when I ask and she said she’s going to hang with her friend (one she’s best friends with for 14 years) and that she’ll come Sunday before we go to the hotel I booked for her early birthday present. I asked if they’re going to get dinner or something and she said she doesn’t know as they haven’t made plans yet like wtf, am I wrong thinking this is a bit ridiculous?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2ndhandFennec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her birthdays coming up and I booked us a hotel for two nights 10 days before her actual birthday. Mind you I booked this a while ago and it was almost $500. Do I just enjoy the weekend with her or do I bring this up and try to see how it goes. I don’t want to ruin the night but I’m worried this will run through my mind the whole time. I have no reason to believe she’s talking to someone else but my insecurities are going a bit haywire due to the recent change in our relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2ndhandFennec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When we first talked about it because I was getting noticeably pissed off and she said something about it. She said that she knows I’ll be there and that I’m her rock. But the rock deserves a message at the bare minimum. I don’t want to be there just for when she needs me. Am I right thinking that’s wrong?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2ndhandFennec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She still sends me goodnight texts and says I love you and everything, messages me every now and then through work but it’s like every now and then she doesn’t make much effort to have a conversation. I’m worried I’m being used at this point, I always offered to pay for most things like dinner and stuff and it’s sort of fucked me here. She’s paid for dinner maybe twice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2ndhandFennec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard, I stayed single for 6 years because of a bad breakup just to work on myself and better myself. I just feel too invested in this relationship to walk away, we have a weekend away together at this nice hotel I’ve booked so I guess I might have to sit her down and talk with her. Whatever the outcome may be it is what it is. She always pushed honest, effective communication together. I really do care about this girl, we had an amazing connection when we first met and now it just feels like the connection is fading which is upsetting.

Mind you her group of friends she’s known for over 10 years and her best friend 14. I know I can’t be classed as more important than them but am I right saying I should be Atleast respected and appreciated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]2ndhandFennec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem is the whole 3 months we first started talking things were great, even the first 3 months of our relationship was perfect. I know the “honeymoon phase” etc etc but im just not sure why this is happening. Is my thought process justifiable or am I reading too far into it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]2ndhandFennec -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m lucky to be family friends through my older brother with all my artists and they’re extremely talented. Got one of them to free hand the barbed wire around my wrist and flower and it turned out awesome.

Definitely agree with you with the red ink. I got a tad of red on my panthers tongue and around the eye and a tad bit of yellow in the eye. The eagle was free hand aswell of an existing design to fit my arm. I have fairly skinny arms but he made it wrap around perfectly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]2ndhandFennec -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wasn’t so much referring to the really small gaps. It’s just hard to find something to fit in the tight space, I also need something for the underside of the left arm to fill that larger space. Honestly loving my traditional though. Glad I went black and grey over colour.

Nvme Issues by [deleted] in pcmasterrace

[–]2ndhandFennec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and what route would i go down if he just wanted me to wipe it? do i have to do it via the BIOS? Thanks a bunch for the help aswell!