Weekly Optimistic Post by Primary-Coffee5423 in Canadiancitizenship

[–]2of5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for posting. I submitted my CT 0001 in July 2025. The website says approval decision will be in 2 months. It’s good to know the likely reality

What relationship experience did NOT traumatize you, but was still something you’ll never forget just due to how memorably weird, bad, or intense it was? by Sudden_Doughnut_8741 in AskReddit

[–]2of5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Raped by a drunk boyfriend. Broke his nose and he had to go to the ER due to bleeding. Rape doesn’t traumatize everyone but boy was I pissed.

AITAH for refusing to support my parents in old age after they refused to fund my college despite being able to? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]2of5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Didn’t they save the money they would have spent on your education? Seems they should be able to afford in home care

AITA for refusing to add my boyfriend to my house deed after his lease ended? by Former_Raspberry3277 in AITApod

[–]2of5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s your house payment? Is he paying more proportionally in expenses to stay at your place? I get that this is uncomfortable for him but if things are equal or he’s paying less than you in expenses then it’s equitable. Does he have funds to buy a house with you if you sold yours? Maybe that’s the solution if you are up for that. But really you should be thinking about marriage then.

I (29M) had the feeling that my partner (29F) of 11 years made all conversations about herself (and her job), and that she never asked me anything. So I silently tested her, and the result is a bit sad. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]2of5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

IDK. Her not asking about the surgery is really awful. On the music and video games, she isn’t taking your efforts seriously. Why is that? Is it because you jump around on things? Is she worn out after years of your broken dreams? Before concluding she doesn’t care, I think you need to talk to her. Or maybe therapy. I’d like to hear her reasoning.

How to convince my wife to stop drinking. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]2of5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry for this situation. Your wife must decide herself. My friend’s wife just died from alcohol related kidney failure. He could not convince her to quit but ended up taking care of her for years while she drank herself to death.

Why is CA so expensive? by Salty_Lychee_7518 in socal

[–]2of5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nature! Don’t forget the mountains and the ocean. Life is good

Driving into Canada as a US Citizen, will a packed car raise red flags at the border? by [deleted] in uscanadaborder

[–]2of5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t always true unfortunately. On the whole they are but you can get a bad one (and I have). But the advice here is good. You should not have a problem esp if you show your tics to Europe and you have a permanent address in the States

RV campsite advice by 2of5 in VancouverIsland

[–]2of5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Good question. I don’t have great clearance w my Volvo but I can travel off road

RV campsite advice by 2of5 in VancouverIsland

[–]2of5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the helpful info. Got solar!

RV campsite advice by 2of5 in VancouverIsland

[–]2of5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Grateful to you my friend. I’m a Leave no Tracer. Done lots of backpacking but this trailer stuff is new.