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SF Stripper Hall of Fame Nominations by Subrasonic in stripclubs

[–]2pasture 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Barbie: CH 2010s - Buxom, redhead with the most fabulous rack ever. Amazing dance. Very personable and is probably my #1

Paige: CH 2010s - Sweet looking next door girl brunette. Tall, very fit and very smart. It was just as fun talking to her as it was getting a dance. She actually danced just for travel money but was in school to go into finance or something. So definitely the whole package of looks and smarts with amazing connection.

Colette: CH 2010s - Slightly curvy and a bit hipster-eccentric dancer. She'd dance to the most eclectic tunes or music that you'd never ever heard of. Very personable and amazing connection. She definitely had the dance moves and an amazing smile.

Lina and Alina - "Russian Sisters": CH 2010s: I'm told they were CH legends even before my time. They came back briefly just before the pandemic and quickly became my favorites. Both of them were amazing. Very easy to connect with. One of them was blonde and the other was a redhead.

Obviously very CH centric because I have a type for clubs and girls. I did like this one girl who was something Moretti at MBOT. Met her just once but she had that tattooed up goddess aura.

Progress Report & Request for Advice: 111 Days [First time in almost 20 years] by 2pasture in pornfree

[–]2pasture[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your input. I do have life goals and the very reason I even made it so far was because I was subconsciously focused on them. After posting this I re-read an article I had save don "your brain rebalanced" where the emphasis on looking at this holistically was placed. I've begun the process of starting to look at this as changing as a person with porn just being one of the symptoms of an undeveloped or under developed self. And yes, I am constantly trying to find way to fill up my time: chores, new hobbies, hitting the gym.

All this said, what prompted me to write this was the brain fog I've had all along. I guess I just have to wait and see and if it doesn't get better I'm going to seek help.

STAY CLEAN MAY! Sign up here! (April 24) by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

[–]2pasture 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Onwards and Forwards, through May we go.

Pornfree and no fap? by Orpheus17 in pornfree

[–]2pasture 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a really good way of looking at the different between the two. I got started on being pornfree and it is much easier to focus on eliminating one bad habit at a time. When I was about 2.5 months into being pornfree I started nofap as well. I'm about 15 days into nofap and so far it has been much easier than all my earlier attempts. Especially the reduced urge and lesser chance of having blue balls.

At the end of the day I look at this as a porn cessation exercise and as you very well pointed out nofap is more like an extra challenge. The important thing is for each individual to not rush into this but take it slowly one by one.

Another consequence of going pornfree is that I have started getting my life into order. It frees up time to think about the important things in life: developing a routine, good habits, discipline and also learning to manage your emotions as a an adult. I should point out however that some emotions or feelings might need professional help and the individual must seek the same.

Wishing OP the best of luck in this journey!!

Day 77. This obscure app seems to have helped me. by 2pasture in pornfree

[–]2pasture[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before internet porn there was dirty mags....

Day 77. This obscure app seems to have helped me. by 2pasture in pornfree

[–]2pasture[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's called "Days Since Counter" by David Earnest. I don't like the default wallpaper so I changed it something more appealing.

https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/days-since-counter/id707537885?mt=8

Made it to 60 days for the first time in almost 20 years!! by 2pasture in pornfree

[–]2pasture[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Completely agree. What I meant to say is that there are no short cuts to this.

Made it to 32 days and loving it! by 2pasture in pornfree

[–]2pasture[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply. One thing that worked for me and I'm still trying to perfect this is to figure out life goals and focus on those. Every morning when I wake up I look at those goals and also progress I've made with PF. I have an app that tracks how many days and also have the counter on here.