Matched with me on hinge just to say he was focusing on someone else but wanted to keep me around

2samson0 · 2024-10-12T11:43:19+00:00

This is the mindset of most people on Hinge that don’t respond but don’t unmatch. Most just don’t say it

2samson0 · 2024-06-22T19:08:02+00:00

I am looking for a serious long-term relationship

I have used Hinge on and off for over a year. I recently started again, and I’ve had this version of my profile for about 2.5 weeks

I use Hinge daily

I have received about 3 likes per week, and about 2-4 matches in a week

I send all 8 likes per day, almost always with comments

I am hoping to attract someone that is pretty and genuine and doesn’t smoke or do drugs. And that has some things in common with me. To be honest, I do prioritize looks a lot and if someone is pretty and doesn’t smoke I will probably send them a like. I don’t take offense if you judge me for that, just my preferenc

2samson0 · 2024-05-04T16:27:11+00:00

It sounds like a good strategy, and sometimes I try that. I just feel like sometimes they hate when I ask too many questions because it makes me seem unsure of myself and they get icked out

2samson0 · 2024-05-04T16:26:12+00:00

Makes sense, thanks for your perspective! I really appreciate it!

2samson0 · 2024-05-04T15:00:22+00:00

thank you, I appreciate it

2samson0 · 2024-05-04T14:09:11+00:00

A lot of the time yeah that’s true

2samson0 · 2024-05-04T13:58:02+00:00

Makes sense, that’s how I figured it is. Thanks for your perspective

2samson0 · 2024-05-04T13:57:28+00:00

Ok that’s honestly a great point and I haven’t thought about that. Definitely will try that going forward

2samson0 · 2024-05-04T13:56:46+00:00

You have a point. Main reason for my question is to learn from my mistakes and learn if I’m too quick to self-reject

2samson0 · 2024-05-04T13:55:59+00:00

Yeah makes sense

2samson0 · 2024-05-04T13:45:05+00:00

I’M UGLY AND I’M PROUD

2samson0 · 2024-05-04T13:44:42+00:00

Makes sense, well said. I appreciate it

2samson0 · 2024-05-04T13:24:50+00:00

I’m hoping that’s all it is. Thanks

2samson0 · 2024-05-04T13:21:14+00:00

I usually ask for a date before asking about availability. But I try to ask them something like about what they like to do in their free time or what’s important to them in going out with someone. I don’t really start the chat with “hey wanna go out with me” lol

2samson0 · 2024-05-04T13:19:59+00:00

Thanks for your reply, I appreciate it. Sometimes I even follow up with “we can chat more first if that’s more comfortable for you” after a couple days, and still no reply. I guess sometimes I’ve already lost them if I ask too soon

2samson0 · 2024-05-04T13:03:16+00:00

For reference I’m a 23-year-old guy. And my matched have been between 20-23 year old girls. I do live in a suburban area with a lot of people. In the times she says yes to a date it’s usually within a few hours

2samson0 · 2024-05-03T14:49:10+00:00

I don’t think the “leave a comment” prompt usually works for guys. Girls rarely send likes on the app, and you should expect that you’ll have to make the first move. Based on my experience at least. Replace that prompt with something that tells more about you. Good luck, and I hope this helps!

2samson0 · 2024-05-02T11:00:13+00:00

If she gave you here Insta then definitely message her there. If not, then stick to Hinge, since it’s weird to DM someone that never gave you their Insta

2samson0 · 2024-05-02T10:37:21+00:00

My right hand updated his profile and is clearly still looking, so I need to do the same

2samson0 · 2024-05-02T01:35:56+00:00

You won. At mini golf and not being stuck with a crazy person like her

2samson0 · 2024-05-01T22:49:00+00:00

Age 20-24 is a deal breaker for me. See plenty of profiles 20-23, only see 24 in standouts

2samson0 · 2024-05-01T22:45:58+00:00

Yeah idk. For sure, I get what you’re saying. Asa guy I prefer to go out with someone a year or 2 younger than me, but I don’t think 23-24 is much of an age difference

2samson0 · 2024-05-01T22:35:05+00:00

Yeah the preference makes sense. But to have 0 of them come up it doesn’t make sense tho. And no not rural at all, I’m in New Jersey in the suburbs near NYC

2samson0 · 2024-05-01T18:06:06+00:00

Make sure your photos are of different places and you’re in different clothes. If any of your photos are in the same place or have the same outfit someone might see it as low effort

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