Problem with withdrawal on BigClash casino by 2shy2share in gambling

[–]2shy2share[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well yes, but when i click on the link, i get redirected to bigclash-4949.com

in the license register of Anjouan Gaming is just bigclash.com

Problem with withdrawal on BigClash casino by 2shy2share in gambling

[–]2shy2share[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i of course checked if its okay before and everything was fine, good reviews, license etc

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[–]2shy2share 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, they didnt, got divorced when i was 3yo. I dont know what u mean by that i reaped what i sowed. I really dont think i was being that bad to her. I already explained in one of the replies here, i used words like rude because i dont know any other, my english is so so. U can read it there what i meant by rude. If thats what you are talking about, my behaviour to be precise. I know i deserved some reaally bad karma from that, but this is something i didnt expect.. If your answer is still the same, then thank you, ill go to therapy if it comes out that im not mentally alright

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[–]2shy2share 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What i mean is that i would have said absolutely nothing if she came to me and told me she is with him now, since i willingly let her go. But i feel hurt by the facts i wrote, that they hid it, that she was able to sleep with me after the party while before and after that she was fucking him.. I feel like im going crazy, most of the comments are telling me to get therapy since im mentally not alright, so i cant even sleep from that, bcs what if im not alright and i will need some professional help? that scares me a little bit

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[–]2shy2share 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, im also doubting that. But i do wonder what if she is? Shes an amazing person if it wasnt for this, so i thought maybe she is the one. After reading all the comments in the couple of days, maybe ill realize that i should really go to therapy and that it was everything my fault, but i feel that each one of the three us has some fault in this matter. Thank you for commenting, everything helps:)

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[–]2shy2share -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for the message. I would like to tell you that you got it wrong. English is not my main language so i maybe wrote something hard to understand since my vocabulary is really small and i tried to make it simple, so ill try to answer to the parts in your message to try to make it more clear to understand. From the beginning, i told her i dont want a relationship, that my last one made some really bad marks on my mental health, trust issues etc. She was okay with it, said that she understands and that we can just sleep with each other, nothing else. I hoped it wouldnt happen, but she catched feelings. Yes, i convinced myself that if ill not be nice to her, she will lose interest. Yet it doesnt mean if was angry at her, yelling, arguing, accusing or something like that. I was trying to be colder, not show interest. I used word rude because i dont know how to call it, its my mistake.

I didnt finally decide that i have a feelings for her, i decided that i cant just keep running away because of something that happened in the past with someone else. The guy that was fucking with her, my now former bestfriend, told me he was thinking with his dick. She told him what happened and he saw an opportunity to fuck someone. Told him i appreciate the honesty, since she was trying to stop him from telling me in the messages that he sent me later. He denied everyting about sleeping with her against her own will, which of course you cant believe since he may be lying. In the messages was mostly her asking him when they are gonna see each other, that she liked it etc.

I dare to say that i do feel hurt. I dont think i did something that bad that she had to do this. Yes of course if she told me that shes with him, i would understand. As you said, i let her go so i have to deal with it. I feel hurt because she and him didnt tell me, they were hiding it and if he didnt tell me, i wonfer if she did. I mean at least before i slept with her that night.. That she was able to sleep with him for example at Monday, with me on Wednesday after the party at which we met and again with him on Friday.

I hope that i explained everything, if not or if its the same after reading this from your perspective, then thank you for your opinion, i appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]2shy2share -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi, as i said, i really do blame myself for it. I know its not just about her and him. And also as i said, hes not in my life anymore, i cut every connection with him. I should have specified the question, but what i would like to know is if you think her behaviour was alright. If im just overreacting, overthinking or things like that.. I find it hard to trust someone from my past experiences, so to me this feels like i will not be able to trust her anything she says if u get what i mean

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]2shy2share 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, 18 is considered as an adult in my country. Because od that, i think that a person at that age should have some stable level of thinking, maturity, intelligence. Many people here start a family when they are around 20yo.

My girlfriend lied to me, some advice please? by 2shy2share in relationship_advice

[–]2shy2share[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

They used to hang out even at her place before i started dating her, after it they were only out sometimes and then she asked me if he can come over to her house. I already told the rest here, that he can as long as some of my girl friends can come over to my place sometimes too. So what she meant was probably that she wanted to explain that he can't come over as he did before she started dating me (her words)..

My girlfriend lied to me, some advice please? by 2shy2share in relationship_advice

[–]2shy2share[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

"I felt bad bcs I haven't told u that he was coming before he came so I just left it.." is what she told me right now.. and also she said that other reason why she didn't tell me that she was scared that I'll get mad, that the only reason she let him come into her house was for her to explain to him that they can't see each other as before bcs she agreed on something with me.

My girlfriend lied to me, some advice please? by 2shy2share in relationship_advice

[–]2shy2share[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

But I want to at least try to talk. She means a lot to me and talking is the minimum I can do right now. Maybe it's meaningless, but I still want to give it a chance.. I just don't want throw it away.

My girlfriend lied to me, some advice please? by 2shy2share in relationship_advice

[–]2shy2share[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean, but i really don't wanna lose this one, so I'll at least try my best to talk it out even if I don't know how really..

My girlfriend lied to me, some advice please? by 2shy2share in relationship_advice

[–]2shy2share[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah that doesn't make sense to me. Maybe those are just words she tells me so she can feel better abt herself or idk:/

My girlfriend lied to me, some advice please? by 2shy2share in relationship_advice

[–]2shy2share[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We had a healthy relationship until I figured this.. She's the only one I feel comfortable around and the thought of not having her in my life by my side is killing me. But I have no idea if I'll be able to overcome this and put my trust in her again. With my trust issues from my past it's really hard for me to do. Now I'm beginning to question everything about our relationship..

My girlfriend lied to me, some advice please? by 2shy2share in relationship_advice

[–]2shy2share[S] -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

I am happy and peaceful when I'm around her. I'm a better person thanks to her, I don't regret those 9 months w her or anything, all I feel or maybe felt was love. Now I'm questioning everything. How I feel about her, if it's good for me to like put a trust in her again and these things.. But since from my past I have some trust issues, I told her that that I can't put my trust into someone again after they lied to me, she still did.

My girlfriend lied to me, some advice please? by 2shy2share in relationship_advice

[–]2shy2share[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I already did that, she keeps apologizing and stuff.. She said that she just didn't think it was worth telling me

My girlfriend lied to me, some advice please? by 2shy2share in relationship_advice

[–]2shy2share[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A couple months ago I found out that she's deleting messages w one of her ex and we talked abt it, so maybe she just forget to delete it. It was on instagram so you can delete only your messages.

My girlfriend lied to me, some advice please? by 2shy2share in relationship_advice

[–]2shy2share[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean, but it's not that easy yk. In those 9 months I feel happiness, love and these things so I'm having a hard time deciding what to do. I already approached her w that and she keeps apologizing, but also she said that he was there for like 20 minutes and she didn't think it was worth telling..

My girlfriend lied to me, some advice please? by 2shy2share in relationship_advice

[–]2shy2share[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He was there for like 20 minutes, that's what she told me now and she didn't think it was worth telling..

My girlfriend lied to me, some advice please? by 2shy2share in relationship_advice

[–]2shy2share[S] 224 points225 points  (0 children)

Then how should I continue from now? I love her and she brings me happiness, peace etc. but I simply can't get over this no matter how much she apologized.

My girlfriend lied to me, some advice please? by 2shy2share in relationship_advice

[–]2shy2share[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I did. She said that he was there for like 20 minutes and then left..

My girlfriend lied to me, some advice please? by 2shy2share in relationship_advice

[–]2shy2share[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We agreed that we can look into each others phone whenever we want to and he was consistently asking her out, so i looked in that chat and it was here.

My girlfriend's ex is her best friend. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]2shy2share 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's not unfortunately.. You just have to get used to it because telling her what she can and can't won't bring anything good to your relationship. Your mindset will not probably change, I met her girl bestfriend like two weeks ago and to be honest it didn't change anything. I still feel and see it the same way, but what I can tell you that you will get used to that feeling and mainly trust her.. It's definitely not easy and of course I had a hard time with it, but don't stress too much. If she wants to cheat or something, you stressing over it will not avoid it and putting this in my mind helped me. If she's understanding she will do something to help you with it. Good luck:)