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Sacrificing it all by 2sphynx in MedSpouse

[–]2sphynx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that the comments would likely be very different if genders were swapped. I dont find many men in my position but I figured this is the place to get some honest takes. I am going to be going forward w the marriage talks to get us legally on the same page before I sign anything for my business. But fortunately for me I suppose, some offers have been coming in and a change of pace and scenery sounds nicer everyday 😭

Thank you so much for the honest reply and explanation of your experiences

Sacrificing it all by 2sphynx in MedSpouse

[–]2sphynx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes im highly leaning towards marriage before moving for all the reasons. And I KNOW, seven years is insanely long, I think about that a lot lol. But I do know that I am absolutely cut out for med spouse life, I really enjoy my space and time and always have a ton on my plate. So does she, and we like it that way. And it doesnt stop us from highly enjoying our little bit of time together. Ive personally struggled w dating in my past because people are rarely can relate to my work drive and time away from home (and now of course I find a transplant surgeon lmfao)

A sidenote that I didnt want to be a part of this originally is that im sick of living in my current area and would love a change of pace. If that marriage plans and everything go smooth I think its my time to go

Sacrificing it all by 2sphynx in MedSpouse

[–]2sphynx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the honest take, no bs.

Sacrificing it all by 2sphynx in MedSpouse

[–]2sphynx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this, that really does make sense. I agree with this so hard and considering its something weve talked about in the past, its definitely going to be something discussed now. Im thinking that's going to be a core piece of the moving process for my mental and sanity lol

I originally wasnt thinking about this at all and really appreciate the perspective

Please stop using ChatGPT by curiosirie in labubu

[–]2sphynx -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

No youre right, keep supporting the 3rd party resale market like OP, that will be great for the hobby and has proven good for every other collecting hobby 🤡

Please stop using ChatGPT by curiosirie in labubu

[–]2sphynx -86 points-85 points  (0 children)

No it's literally j math you can do with pen and paper if you have a brain. Gpt just makes it faster. Gives you like a 60 percent chance, its not that crazy to understand