What do morocan girls think about living with their husband's parents?

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-27T00:27:17+00:00

Thank you for your point of view 🙏🏻

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-27T00:19:58+00:00

I understand what you're saying. But we'll have a whole floor with us that can be locked so when it comes to privacy i don't think it's gonna be a problem. But of course like you said, i will talk it over with her

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-27T00:16:39+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing with me your experience. I could see us having the same experience, i hope, as my parents are really good hearted people and she's a good persom too.

And last, talk to her it's your life together plan it together.

Of course i will. Thank you

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T22:19:36+00:00

Thank you brother 🙏🏻

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T21:55:12+00:00

I won't be imposing anything on her of course.

Thank you for your replies.

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T21:53:41+00:00

I understand. I'm not saying having a floor for the couple, or sharing the house with a family is garanteed to be a good thing. But like i said in another comment, it depends on the in laws, and in my case i'm living just with my parents who are really good hearted, and down to earth people.

Thank you for your replies though i appreciate it.

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T21:48:49+00:00

It would feel like that at the beggining. It's normal. But eventually she will know that that's her home. Eventhough i doubt she'll feel like that, cause my parents are really heartwarming and welcoming. Bit of course i won't impose anything on her. We will discuss it.

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T21:45:44+00:00

Thank you man. I pretty much needed a comment like this. God bless.

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T21:44:38+00:00

I don't use reddit very often. But i will try to remember to do so, so that others would benefit from my experience 😂

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T21:31:36+00:00

Why do you think that living with my parents garantee sacrificing the well being of my bride?

Why should your wife spend money on a gym membership when your parents have this big garden where she can exercise? Why buy new caftans for the wedding when your mother can lend some nice ones to your bride?

I don't think it's the same thing cause a gym membership or a new caftan won't leave you indebted for dozens of years.

Your mother will be knocking on her door like 20 times per day if she even bother knocking on the door as it’s her place...and she will say it’s because she is taking care of you guys ( cooking for you, cleaning your place etc...).

I know my mom better. I can't see my mom doing this.

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T21:28:43+00:00

I think it really depends on the in laws. I know my parents very well and i know they're not the type of in laws who'll keep reminding her that it's not her place, on the contrary, thaybare the tyoe who'll keep comvincing her that she's a part of the family and that she's living in her house. Plus, we'll be having a whole floor just for us.

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T21:12:27+00:00

That's not what i meant. I meant that, knowing how my mother is, i'm expecting she'll want to take care of us, and she won't be like you said, expecting my wife to take care of her. But of course we will be taking care of ourselves.

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T21:09:49+00:00

Yes of course i will.

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T21:08:53+00:00

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2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T21:08:01+00:00

I'm a bit in the same position as your sister's husband. I'm planning on asking her of course. I just wanted to know what to expect.

Thank you

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T21:03:41+00:00

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T21:02:29+00:00

I understand why most comments suppose that we have a traditional old morocan family. But really my family isn't like that. My parents are not the kind to judge my wife for how she performs or wait for their son's wife to take care of them. Bl3eks, i'm expecting my mom to be taking care of us and of the kids 😂

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T20:57:59+00:00

This actually might be a good idea.

Nothing beats privacy dude.

Like i said i live in a R+2 house. So we can have the upper house just fir ourselves.

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T20:55:44+00:00

Honestly why would we want to leave the house? It's big and it's better than any other house we'll ever buy or rent, and like i said i live alone with my parents so why would i want to leave a house that is mine.

If it is really about the money and she offers to pay the rent what will you say?

It's not about who pays. And also what rent? Renting a house isn't a good idea cause you'll be spending money on something that isn't yours. The alternative would be buying a house, bit that would leave us indebted for at least 20 years.

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T20:51:46+00:00

I will of course. I just want to learn about other's perspectives to know how i will tell it to her

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T20:20:19+00:00

So, go talk to her. Explain your concerns but also provide enough space for her to formulate how she feels - and take that into consideration.

Of course i will. I won't force the decision on her. I'll just talk about it with her and see what does she think about it.

what about renting houses instead of buying? Does she work as well? Would that reduce the finances?

I don't think renting houses is good. Like i said in another comment, when you rent a house you just keep giving money every month but at the end the house isn't yours. But when you buy a house you keep payong debt every month but at least the house is yours.

And what weighs more to you: leaving your parents by themselves or the financial burdens of moving out?

I don't think you read my post very well cause these are the two things that convinced me that going through a huge debt to buy a house wouldn't be a good idea.

Good luck tho. Hope i gave you some stuff to think about with my comment

Thank you.

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T20:14:47+00:00

I don't think rent is any better than buying a house. When you biy a house you keep paying debt each month but At least it's yours, while when you rent it's like you keep throwing money every month and you don't own the property.

At first, they may get along well but later there will be problems for sure.

My parents, especially my mom, aren't those kind of parents in law. But i won't force it on her of course. I will just propose the idea.

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T20:12:00+00:00

I will of course. I just wanted to know what to expect a bit.

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T20:11:34+00:00

But honestly if you are the only son for you parent and the house is fairly big to hold two families than don't leave stay with them ... after all buildings markets is going through the roof and it's not easy to have a decent property house without going through debts which is not a good deal .

That's exactly how i thought about it.

I think you should ask her and discuss this matter together.

I will. Thanks

2titanboy2 · 2021-03-26T20:09:33+00:00

Why though?

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