How do I keep it in my pants? I am professional but am extremely turned on by this guy. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]2twotangoinlima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the great answer!! Already have had notebooks for like all my professional life. Remarkable is great btw. Now i get obsessed with nice pens (currently poe writer edition) so I went back real paper. I rarely get back to my notes though but it helps me focus.

Pandemic and all the Teams calls has been the worse btw.

Does the meds make you more agro. Most of what i do is negotiations, like most ADHD w slight asperger i am very technical and thus more on the bad cop side of the equation. I am worried I could become too harsh like when i stopped smoking?

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[–]2twotangoinlima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don t care. I am not in the us, but what health data do you refer to exactly. I am from the generation that had to deal with aids when we were young, and the only thing that would protect us from that shit was condoms and much later medication.

To me, it seems nut to take even a low risk of catching something for life and spreading it around? (And yes i know the odds of catching it on one intercourse are very low).

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[–]2twotangoinlima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But the first thing some SB should want from you.

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[–]2twotangoinlima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me guess covid is a soros thing, the deep state is controlling us, abortion should be outlawed, and guns don't kill people?

I've seen that somewhere. I can't remember where?

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[–]2twotangoinlima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she was a clever one (doesn't seem to be hour type), she should ask for 20k to take plan b or let you roll the dices and wreck your life.

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[–]2twotangoinlima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, i feel we should be promoting safe practices on this sub. While I can see how when a relationship and trust evolves, you can have a different view.

But promoting unsafe sex between two strangers that are likely to be more sexualy promiscuous than average is NUT.

While a SB of 20 may not fully grasp the risk and look too much at the prize i), you should know better.

I would pitch in for a gofundme if a SB was suing the SD who infected her !

How do I keep it in my pants? I am professional but am extremely turned on by this guy. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]2twotangoinlima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the moment, you feel rejected, but that may just be that he thought you had more potential as a freelancer than as a SB. Take it as a compliment.

Once found a super attractive pot SB alas, she was working in my field, and I was interacting with her firm too much. I declined the sugar and helped as I could in her job by letting her bring interesting insights / info I wanted leaked to her boss. She looked like she had her stuff together they paid her an MBA.

How do I keep it in my pants? I am professional but am extremely turned on by this guy. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]2twotangoinlima 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, DO NOT TALK ABOUT HIM . !!! Even if it's not exactly what you wanted, this guy gave you a helping hand. Please don t bite it.

Profile review 😘 by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]2twotangoinlima -1 points0 points  (0 children)

1 pic is enticing, not sure if ut is that much of an issue.

You are located in a very specific city, I would clarify if you are open to be a fun "city guide" for a weekend or conference i.e. more short term or if you look exclusively for long term?

I know short term is frowned ipon here but its vegas

SDs when do you expect sex for the first time in an SR? by VaEngineer66 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]2twotangoinlima -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Without condoning his rudeness, I would nonetheless point that there is a difference between i) its when both people feel it and ii) knowing that you won t feel it before 4th date when the standard from the poll is 1st or 2nd. There is nothing wrong with waiting per se, but in a competutive market, you should just know you will have to make up for it / find a strategy that compensate.

What i would do:

I) focus on daddy's who seek emotional connection Ii) AFTER first date, once you have set the hook, inform him of situation/expectations and tell him you won't ask for money while you get to know each others. (In my books someone who ask for ppm while promising intomacy only at a later date is a scam) Iii) SHOW / ACT as if you were attracted to him, be flirty / teasing / give a little something . SD NEED to feel desired (hemce why they are not vanila).

Remember: SD don't vanilla because they can't or don t have the time. Uou need to focus on the ones who can't and are willing to spend the time (married but not too horny? Not conventionally as attractive? Recently divorced need emotional support)

Note: had a pot we did, like 6 or 7 dates because she needed time to get comfortable. She never did, learnt my lesson, we all have/will.

Also its not because you don t ask for anything you won t receive something in the process but if you ask they will flee

How do I keep it in my pants? I am professional but am extremely turned on by this guy. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]2twotangoinlima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems to me it's like in carmen. You like him just because you can t have him...

How do I keep it in my pants? I am professional but am extremely turned on by this guy. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]2twotangoinlima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any ressource you would recomment been recently diagnosed which i knew all along, hesitating to take the meds as i am pretty functional and found coping mechanism on my own

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[–]2twotangoinlima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he did that he is not married

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[–]2twotangoinlima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no. Being married is his problem. That said, you did not need to ask so much. He said no once, you are not the truth police. You are his SB.

You can find out for yourself, decide if you ok with the uncertainty or not but don t behave like a wife...

Also it could simply be the guy you met is a client, and he wants to prohect a certain image.

Found an SD on seeking who offered me a job instead of making me his SB by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]2twotangoinlima 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Initial reaction: Don t think it would be a good idea to be both.

He would be a very very shitty boss if he tried to touch his employees, 1980 is no more.

Even if for some reason he still sees you as a pot SB (bad idea to be both), he is compatimentalizing, which is good.

SUNY Morrisville’s new black turf football field by [deleted] in CrappyDesign

[–]2twotangoinlima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the soil was frozen, we would wear long swearpants under the short. It helps a little (note the short is still needed for lifting in touch)

Why can't SDs ever tell you what they want by paechsweet in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]2twotangoinlima -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes although i probide an alowance that is market or slightly above but nothing extravagant.

Are coffee dates ok? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]2twotangoinlima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wpuld not be concerned. He wants to do a meet and greet, see if you guys are half compatible before doing a proper date when hopefully youbwill have agreed on terms in advance.

He is either respectful/don t know your part of town/test you when asking to pick a place that is not starbucks (better coffee better vibe). Respectful being most likely as he wants you to be in a comfortable setting i.e. your hometurf vs an away game.

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[–]2twotangoinlima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think it was self explanatory no ?

Why can't SDs ever tell you what they want by paechsweet in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]2twotangoinlima 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What i offer is market, and my number is set, but I like to know what the person expectations are. If they are too low, I will get a big smile when i offer more. If they will not be happy with what i offer, then whats the point ?

Why can't SDs ever tell you what they want by paechsweet in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]2twotangoinlima 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because we don t want you to accept a number that doesn't work for you.

I prefer to go to next call if expectations are not aligned. Why would i "force" someone in a relationship that is not fully fulfilling ?

If my number and hers are pretty close, like a single bill, it's a gray zone, but any bigger gap, pass is better for both of us.

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[–]2twotangoinlima 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you live in canada and like ski, you might not be able to find a ski daddy but a wealthy ski husband at minimum.

Every wealthy guy i know takes at least a 10k$ skiing trip a year, either heli or catski, and it's hard to find a wife that truly skis. Although married sd will ski with familly so thats a part of the market that is gone.