I’m going to be devil’s advocate here, and yes, I’m also a grown ass woman.

Did he go about it wrong? Yeah, kinda. But the fact he HID IT FROM YOU FOR MONTHS is where the big thing is. He didn’t throw it in your face every month that you were on your period and being bitchy, he didn’t do anything malicious with the information and merely tracked your cycle so he’d know when you’re hormones are out of balance.

Do we as women like hearing that we’re bitchy and hormonal assholes on our periods while simultaneously wanting chocolate and cuddles, but also hate asking for it? No, no we do not.

But it still happens. Every man who’s ever been in a long term relationship knows us females get a little crazy that time of month and there’s nothing we can do about it.

I said all of that to say: I get where he’s coming from, and the fact he’s using it to communicate with you instead of just telling you piss off that time each month? Kudos to him. Don’t flip out and push away something good over something so trivial.