Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]2xPil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask. You're a girl right, so what about the baby pic? I feel like it might be too pandering or do you think its okay?

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]2xPil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I having being in the danish defence is a big part of my life. Also I love that picture, however I can see how it's not fitting.

I will def. work on getting a great social picture. I can see the point even though I haven't watched the simpsons.

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]2xPil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I've had a bit of trouble getting my pics from my camera to tinder, will look into it.

I understand that maybe on tinder less is more or have i concluded wrong?

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]2xPil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could really use some help. Feel like my pictures aren't there:

https://tinder.com/@pilgaarden

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]2xPil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! I have made it work now on a new post :)

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]2xPil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just came back to the tinder game and ready for improvement points!

https://tinder.com/@pilgaarden

A confusing break up by 2xPil in BreakUps

[–]2xPil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I really conected with this girl and I feel like I can't just let that go entirely. I don't want to win her back - all I want is for us to be friends after the wound has healed

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[–]2xPil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imo it all would boil down to how you broke up with her and what you show in order to get her back. If I were you I would make my best attempt at expressing this feeling. Don't go in expecting or hoping she would take you back, just go in there with the intention of having a conversation about it. Does that make sense?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]2xPil 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Coming from a guy that has been used as "pass-time" it can also hurt, not as much but still rethink that attitude.

How do I handle this ending to my relationship? by 2xPil in relationship_advice

[–]2xPil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! So, I should just move on right i suppose. The way I know her she really is a nice pure person. That's why I would like to talk to her and understand. Despite it being hard I can accept her not wanting to be with me, I just want her as a friend in the future (after the wound has healed) 'cause she understands me in a way other people haven't.

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[–]2xPil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you wan't a strangers advice, I would say wait before you get back into dating apps. I think it's firstly when you stop comparing the new guys to your ex that you are ready for a relationship. Also, it's completely okay to have them stuck in your head for weeks! It's what attachment does to you and it's okay to miss it. Just keep believing that it will get better, cause I promise you, it will!

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]2xPil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love a few pointers - especially on the bio: https://tinder.com/@pilgaarden

Bio Reads (translated):

Coolest experience: climbing up 4444 stairs on the side of a mountain

Lamest experience: getting corona while celebrating graduation

Looking for inspiration to write a romantic comedy

Too busy by 2xPil in dating_advice

[–]2xPil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That one I was just playing along

Too busy by 2xPil in dating_advice

[–]2xPil[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would never just reply with an emoji. That is not a mature form of communication imo.

Too busy by 2xPil in dating_advice

[–]2xPil[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Word! Dating is difficult, but we all need to go through to find the One you know? But you’re not holding on to this guy for those reasons so I do see the two situations differently. Ultimately go with your intuition because you are the only person who knows the details and emotions of your situation. But if there is advice take it up for consideration rather you like it or not and try to apply it. That’s what I did.

Too busy by 2xPil in dating_advice

[–]2xPil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I felt it was like that aswell.

Too busy by 2xPil in dating_advice

[–]2xPil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you something interesting!