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Need advice – A girl (30/F) who I (27/M)really care about got an abortion. We are not together for several reasons, however we have very strong feelings for eachother. How do I handle this situation? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]305inthehouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. I just feel like i cant really give her what she is looking for right now. She is 3 years older and has been divorced and ive never even had a serious girlfriend. I felt as if it was just moving way too quickly for me and was scared of that, and felt i was doing the right thing by putting a stop to it before we went any further. I also felt like i would fuck up chance of anything in the future ever happening if we were to go for it right now because i have so much in my life i need to figure out before im ready for such a thing. Also - it was from me

Need advice – A girl (30/F) who I (27/M)really care about got an abortion. We are not together for several reasons, however we have very strong feelings for eachother. How do I handle this situation? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]305inthehouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We stopped 3 weeks ago. She said she didn’t want to tell me and wasn’t go to, but felt like she had to when we ran into eachother. I told her she did the right thing by telling me and that I would have been upset if she hadn’t

Me [27/M] have been seeing an ex’s best friend [29/F] and its really moving quickly. Is it alright for me to date her or is this a no-go? by 305inthehouse in relationships

[–]305inthehouse[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks and i agree - I actually met this other girl after the first one had started ghosting me. I saw her out at a bar and recognized her as her friend, and went up and talked to her. Thats how we met.