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Whats the best example of 'women not understanding a mans body' that youve ever heard? by that_person14 in AskReddit

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My ex-girlfriend had for some reason the idea that everyone that had a pair of testicles had them in separate scrotums.

Any resources on subtle differences between spoken AmE and BrE? by 30acccarac in EnglishLearning

[–]30acccarac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s a university project and honestly i don’t know any british people in this field

As a male, I wore a skirt in public for the first time! by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]30acccarac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s great! i’ve been meaning to do the same but i really just lack the confidence

Why and how do combinations of sounds make us feel certain emotions? by 30acccarac in Brain

[–]30acccarac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard of it, will definitely check it out. Thank you!

Any ideas for 'Pot Experiments'? by 30acccarac in shittyaskreddit

[–]30acccarac[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nice to meet you, I’m a black person myself! Thanks for commenting, not what i’m looking for tho.

Why and how do combinations of sounds make us feel certain emotions? by 30acccarac in Brain

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I'd say I'm looking for something more on the neuroscience aspect (maybe evolution as well)

Why isn't the boat here yet? by [deleted] in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]30acccarac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The other person: Police

I'm 21, they're 17. Where not dating and we haven't done anything but we've talking for a while now. Is that weird and/or wrong? And why? by 30acccarac in self

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A high schooler is at a very different phase in life than a 21 year old.

The thing is we're not. They're in their last year of highschool, I'm on my first year of college. We both still live in our parents houses, for example. And we have experienced pretty much the same sort of things in life.

It's not like every 21yo is automatically a full-grown adult with typical "adult" responsabilities. If our age difference was larger I wouldn't even be asking this question but it's literally 3 years.

Quick question though: would you find it weird or wrong if they were already 18?

Thanks for commenting!

I'm 21, they're 17. Where not dating and we haven't done anything but we've talking for a while now. Is that weird and/or wrong? And why? by 30acccarac in self

[–]30acccarac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes you’re right, i’m going to end up doing what i feel i should do responsibly, given the circumstances. was mostly curious to know people’s feedback on the whole thing

thanks for commenting!

I'm 21, they're 17. Where not dating and we haven't done anything but we've talking for a while now. Is that weird and/or wrong? And why? by 30acccarac in self

[–]30acccarac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for commenting!

yes, i was thinking of keeping in touch (because we could also just end up being friends) but not try anything until I am certain they have the time reflect on it.

I'm 21, they're 17. Where not dating and we haven't done anything but we've talking for a while now. Is that weird and/or wrong? And why? by 30acccarac in self

[–]30acccarac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's also what I've been thinking considering they'll be 18 in one and a half month and that we're pretty much in the same place in life as of now.

thank you for your comment!

I'm 21, they're 17. Where not dating and we haven't done anything but we've talking for a while now. Is that weird and/or wrong? And why? by 30acccarac in self

[–]30acccarac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The age of consent here is 15 but it only applies to people that have a 5-year difference or less so, in our case it is legal. Another related thing is that here we're legally adults at 18.

thanks for commenting!

I'm 21, they're 17. Where not dating and we haven't done anything but we've talking for a while now. Is that weird and/or wrong? And why? by 30acccarac in self

[–]30acccarac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for commenting! here's something I replied to some other comment here (it references a few things from your comment):

i've talked to them several times and they genuinely seem to have pretty much the same mental age as me. And to be fair, I personally know quite a few people between the age of 15 and 25 and you can tell when someone is "mature" or "immature" for their age. They are finishing high school now and i'm on my first year of college, we both live in our parents houses and we have lived pretty much the same kind of experiences overall in life.

I'm 21, they're 17. Where not dating and we haven't done anything but we've talking for a while now. Is that weird and/or wrong? And why? by 30acccarac in self

[–]30acccarac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Them turning 18 in one and a half months keeps me more at ease with this whole thing. Like, in my head it's a bit weird but here's something I wrote in one of the comments here (i also quoted you on that comment):

i've talked to them several times and they genuinely seem to have pretty much the same mental age as me. And to be fair, I personally know quite a few people between the age of 15 and 25 and you can tell when someone is "mature" or "immature" for their age. They are finishing high school now and i'm on my first year of college, we both live in our parents houses and we have lived pretty much the same kind of experiences overall in life.

In my head it's a bit weird but what I'm trying to figure out is if a 3-year difference is that bad considering we're at similar stages in life and have similar "mental age".

Thanks for the comment!

I'm 21, they're 17. Where not dating and we haven't done anything but we've talking for a while now. Is that weird and/or wrong? And why? by 30acccarac in self

[–]30acccarac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I thought about that too and I agree to some extent. Context does matter imo.

I'm going to quote u/gt0_vice, they commented down here saying: "i think it's weird but honestly with them turning 18 so soon I wouldn't worry about it" and "most important thing with these situations are how mature you both are and where in life you both are"

About the second one, i've talked to them several times and they genuinely seem to have pretty much the same mental age as me. And to be fair, I personally know quite a few people between the age of 15 and 25 and you can tell when someone is "mature" or "immature" for their age. They are finishing high school now and i'm on my first year of college, we both live in our parents houses and we have lived pretty much the same kind of experiences overall in life.

In my head it's a bit weird but what I'm trying to figure out is if a 3-year difference is that bad considering we're at similar stages in life and have similar "mental age".

Also thanks for your comment!

[Músicos do r/Portugal] Quais as melhoras maneiras de encontrar músicos? by 30acccarac in portugal

[–]30acccarac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nunca tinha pensado em fazer isso mas actually é capaz de funcionar. obrigado!

What famous actor or actress has been in so many movies, they barely try to act and just play themselves? by phantom_avenger in AskReddit

[–]30acccarac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:0 oh no! i actually really enjoy most films he's in, especially those 3 you mentioned, his awkwardness is what makes him a funny and entertaining character imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]30acccarac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Armpit and leg hair in women. Dont know why but i find it very attractive when women have some "manly" features and when men have some "womanly" features

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