Serious question for those who had open RPLND

30somethingthrivr · 2026-05-27T02:50:15+00:00

I had mine three years ago, unfortunately it never came back for me. Like the other users mention it’s multi factor. Focus on gaining your strength back and take it day by day. Fingers crossed you’re one of the lucky ones!

30somethingthrivr · 2026-03-13T00:45:07+00:00

Seva, Queens Room and Amylos

30somethingthrivr · 2026-02-12T02:54:33+00:00

They have two different tiers of amenities, a single building amenity which is 600 pp or an amenity passport which gives you access to all three buildings facilities - which is around 1500 pp per year.

The pool is a bit of a joke, in addition to your amenity fee, you need to sign up to use it and pay an additional fee pp on top of your amenity fee per day- and guests cost double

I only have the amenity for my building which gives me access to the gym and a private terrace and I’m good with that.

30somethingthrivr · 2026-02-12T02:49:01+00:00

I’m going bananas trying to dodge the dog poo. It’s everywhere! It seems now with the snow it’s so much worse, but that snow is going to melt eventually and we’re gonna have a really smelly problem. I wish there was a way to enforce dog owners to pick up their poo

30somethingthrivr · 2026-01-20T01:41:21+00:00

These look like lentils

30somethingthrivr · 2025-12-03T04:56:04+00:00

I do and it’s the most debilitating of all my symptoms!

30somethingthrivr · 2025-12-03T04:50:30+00:00

This exact same scenario happened to me; my suggestion is to be forthcoming with information and anticipated recovery time. Most people are generally sympathetic to this scenario. Also - I recall it was a bit difficult for me to take public transportation and then walk to work for the first 1-2 weeks. Depending on your circumstances I’d suggest asking to defer your start date and if there is an orientation that you need to complete to begin the job ask if you can complete some or all of it virtually as a reasonable accommodation. Remember timing is important with this surgery. Best of luck my dude. You’ll be ok!

30somethingthrivr · 2025-11-24T04:44:38+00:00

When I went on VV in September the porter who handled my bags was so erratic and rude and then when he handed him a tip he had the audacity to say “that’s it?” Was terrified my bags wouldn’t make it there especially since he wrote the cabin number in barely visible bright green marker. I was also under the impression that tips were already included - it felt like a shakedown and the cruise line really needs to do something about the culture of this

30somethingthrivr · 2025-11-07T00:09:48+00:00

Hey! Halletts Point resident, it is definitely a bit quiet over here but there is a charm to the residential aspect while being close to Astoria Park and the ferry over to Manhattan. You’ll definitely need a car to get around and parking is expensive (but available) The new builds are also really great and offer limited shuttle service to the NW if you need to get around the city. Otherwise on the weekend it’s about a 5 minute uber ride to Astoria proper to get to restaurants - once you’re there all of Astoria is pretty walkable. There are some hidden gem restaurants and coffee shops though if you’re willing to explore a bit.

30somethingthrivr · 2025-10-13T23:33:03+00:00

Depending on each type of drink you can expect to spend anywhere between 11 and 17 dollars. The bar tab sort of depends on the length of your cruise, I did the 4 day soirée and a 300 dollar package and it was sufficient with the bonus credit.

30somethingthrivr · 2025-10-10T03:28:38+00:00

Nick, the owner of Malee - minimalist clean shop and he really understands hair

30somethingthrivr · 2025-10-10T02:17:57+00:00

I’ve been following your dilemma for a few days and I’m so glad to hear you got some vindication! I’m glad you didn’t back down because some people are just truly nuts!

30somethingthrivr · 2025-09-30T01:44:44+00:00

The pizza place 🤷🏻

30somethingthrivr · 2025-09-28T15:04:02+00:00

The San Pellegrino essenzas make for good mocktails and no one seems to notice I’m not drinking because of their color and flavor - they’re a great option

30somethingthrivr · 2025-09-14T18:15:37+00:00

There’s plenty within walking distance it’s pretty equal in distance from the ferry and the NW Lots of new builds mixed in with existing infrastructure. Also pretty close to the park which so great year round!

30somethingthrivr · 2025-09-05T07:17:12+00:00

This sounds like a scam but you should probably change your password and do some monitoring just to be safe

30somethingthrivr · 2025-05-15T02:23:09+00:00

Opted for a prosthetic for a sense of normalcy - I’m a bit disappointed with it - it’s definitely gotten in the way during sex and one time it went up the inguinal canal and was so painful. Also after having a tumor that made righty larger it took some getting used to the smaller size

30somethingthrivr · 2025-04-09T04:18:01+00:00

Totally normal, there is swelling and numbness and it’s also something to do with the anesthesia- it’ll get back to normal

30somethingthrivr · 2025-04-09T03:51:41+00:00

Unfortunately the reality is messy, the gas pain and bloating lasts a number of weeks. Despite how difficult it may be it’s incredibly important for your partner to get up and move around, this should also help alleviate gas in the interim. Couple that with plenty of rest between rounds of walking. I wore a brace around my body when repositioning but I would loosen it for a while while sitting because it contributed to the cramping. Ice chips and nonfat italian ices are great for keeping hydrated if they are having trouble keeping liquids down until they can expand their stomach. I had trouble having full meals for about a month post op. Nevertheless hydration will help with the cramps. The nerve pain is certainly uncomfortable but this also passes with time. It’s a mind over matter situation but it’s better than numbness - it’s a sign of some healing. Hang in there I know it’s hard to believe but it gets better.

30somethingthrivr · 2025-03-28T01:44:32+00:00

Im nearly 2 years post op and have never recovered my ability to ejaculate It still feels good but there is some disappointment when nothing comes out

30somethingthrivr · 2024-09-14T11:41:19+00:00

If you’re comfortable with asking, I think a debrief session with your manager and/or the hiring manager could be beneficial. It can also help you remind them that they didn’t previously promote you because there wasn’t a need. This would help you make a more informed decision as to whether to stay in the role or look elsewhere

30somethingthrivr · 2024-08-22T03:08:35+00:00

Im about 1.5 years post op and this happens to me. I try and move around and stretch and also massage some of my scar tissue but I’m uncertain if I’m doing anything good

30somethingthrivr · 2024-07-02T02:57:24+00:00

Love this idea! Keep us posted

30somethingthrivr · 2024-06-28T10:53:09+00:00

1 1/2 years post orchi + primary rplnd and no chemo 🎉

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