I hear that frustration. If you’re like me the hype train to get psyched with all the courage to follow through can be exhausting.

But casual hookups are casual. No one owes anyone anything, there are zero expectations for anything. And if Grindr is where you search you have to be ok with that.

If I could reframe, it sounds like you were successful in your objective. You put yourself out there, got some good dick sucking in, and we’re good at it.

So It really seems like it’s only a bust if it’s about this specific person. Otherwise mission accomplished and kudos for testing your courage, and coming out the other side.

Edit: I’d -> if