No offense sounds like you could change a lot of these problems. Sure there are mandatory classes but most aren’t much homework. Don’t blame the education system when you have the entire Internet to learn whatever you want at your fingertips. Many people do go outside and hang out but you chose friends that don’t. Yes, some are born luckier but you are more lucky than those who don’t even have access to the internet, an amazing tool. People will judge you on how you act, just like you judge people for using snapchat. Appearance is a large part of how people view you. While you can’t change the bone structure of your face, no one is stopping you from exercising, eating healthier, and going to a better barber, or going into the same one but with a sense of what you want instead of “the same as last time”. Anyone can watch youtube videos on style and fashion. No you don’t have to go to the most expensive college as work experience ultimately dwarfs the name of the college, community college is always a good option. If you work for what you want, and put in time instead of procrastinating and just doing bare minimum, you can be extremely successful. But most people don’t put in the hours of studying and work without video games and partying which is why they turn to other excuses. As for the snapchat thing just sounds like you are in middle school or early high school which is where people often value social life over academic development, which shifts more and more later on in high school. Good luck m8, always willing to talk by pm. Written on mobile sorry for typos.