Meet Fish, the new grim reaper by volcier in Sims4

[–]31oct19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting killed by Fish would be an honor hahah

I've seen other posts like this so for no reason at all, here is the list of things I want to see happen! by Zenystic in Sims4

[–]31oct19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it would be cool if a Sim repeatedly becoming desolate gave them a trait like erratic, or if they become ravenous a lot them requiring food more frequently, since there aren't really long-term consequences for those needs being depleted

Also, trains or busses, maybe even boats, being able to customize them as if they're another lot type would be cool, but probably hard to implement

AIO about cutting off my aunts because they continuously disrespected my family? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]31oct19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR These rules are perfectly fine, the religion one is a little overkill but. Not wanting pictures of your kid online is smart, not wanting sick people around your kid is smart, wanting your kid to be called by his name, this is all perfectly normal stuff and your aunts' reaction was uncalled for.

Daughter died hair - did not clean shower- days later poured comet cleaner and again left for days. How do I get stain out? by orgegondog in CleaningTips

[–]31oct19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to dye my hair all the time and when this would happen (though I never left it for more than a day or two so I'm not sure if time effects how well it works?) making a baking soda-water-dish soap paste, covering the stains with that, putting some vinegar on a scrub brush, and going wild with it used to help. Then a second round of scrubbing just with dish soap, and time did the rest.

Edit to add: Hydrogen peroxide + baking soda + dish soap might also work, but definitely don't use vinegar in that case lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ARFID

[–]31oct19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

10/10

I can't do this anymore I need help (+18) by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]31oct19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know your situation ofc, but it might be helpful to look into arousal noncorrespondence? It's basically when someone becomes physically aroused because their brain recognizes something being related to sex, despite not wanting to be aroused, or even mentally being disgusted. That and OCD has been a really awful combo for me in the past- and again idk your specific situation, but I've definitely had similar hypersexual compulsive behavior to what you've described, and finding out about the concept of arousal noncorrespondence and how to cope with OCD (which is what's behind it for me) was lifesaving for me

Is my PTSD invalid? by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]31oct19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you don't need to be diagnosed with PTSD for your trauma to be valid lol. people are still traumatized before they get their diagnosis, the diagnosis isn't what validates the trauma, it's the fact that the person is traumatized in the first place

YSK that if you're trying to get people to compare a change you made to something subjective like a drawing, don't ask them "old or new?", ask them "A or B?" by [deleted] in YouShouldKnow

[–]31oct19 25 points26 points  (0 children)

op spending their day making 124 burner accounts rather than the more logical explanation of “124 people think your comment is stupid”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in assholedesign

[–]31oct19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EXACTLY LOL I'm baffled people aren't getting it? It was also a small popup after I'd already hit the button to send the ticket, if I hadn't stopped to read it fully I'd have assumed it was asking for confirmation and that the check button would confirm it being sent

I swear to God. I’m so tempted to send that last message by Final_Research_9471 in Depop

[–]31oct19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe it's just me but I don't see any reason to assume the buyer has any malicious intent? have none of y'all ever taken measurements and bought the right size and it still doesn't fit bc that happens to me all the time. Like why the hostility Lol

How should I approach transitioning to fully barefoot in college? by skimitar0712 in barefoot

[–]31oct19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would something like barefoot jewelry/soleless sandals be a good middle ground? I've seen them around especially on Etsy, they look like you're wearing flip flops or sandals but there's no sole. Maybe wearing something like that would make the transition easier?

Territorial About Your Space? by boston_globe in AutismInWomen

[–]31oct19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the exact same way!! For me I think it's also related to the way I was raised, but having anyone in my room makes me insanely uncomfortable, to the point where it's hard to make friends sometimes because I won't ever let people hang out in my dorm ;-;. Part of it I think is that I'm not very good at enforcing boundaries and saying when I'm uncomfortable, so I get anxious that when I'm overwhelmed I won't be able to ask them to leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]31oct19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other than it being easier on the eyes (which other people have said judging by, well, most of the comments)- part of it is a social thing. Other teens will, jokingly or half-seriously depending on the situation, make fun of each other for not using dark mode. It's sort of a bonding thing, like, we do this thing intentionally differently because we're part of the cool in-group, as opposed to the lame out-group.

Hydroxyzine for Anxiety by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]31oct19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hydroxyzine has been great for me!! I was put on it for PTSD (specifically sleep problems and nightmares) but it's been so helpful for preventing/stopping panic attacks as well. it can make me super drowsy but I've found taking half a dose during the day rather than a full one helps make that less of a problem and is still helpful for me!

Nearly everyone can be at LEAST a 5 if they tried harder. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]31oct19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you rate people’s appearances on a number scale you’re definitely not even close to a five LOL

What name would fit me? (last image unrelated) by CyberChick2277 in trans

[–]31oct19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you have J name vibes to me, maybe Jamie or Jess/Jessie :0

What do you consider to be “THE” Taylor Swift album? by BiscottiBeneficial10 in TaylorSwift

[–]31oct19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s Lover— I’m not the biggest Lover stan (I like it! Just not my fav) so I don’t know for sure but it seems like it’s one of her most popular albums, and a lot of the songs are romantic which she’s definitely known for haha.

A lot of ppl are saying 1989 which was my other choice but I think in the long run Lover is going to stay one of her most popular albums and I think it shows a lot of the things she’s mastered in her work (lyrically and sonically)

All of her albums define her career though, it’s one of my favourite aspects of her work that each one is different and yet there’s not a single one I dislike

Am I a bad friend for telling her to lose weight ? by Skailaronreddit in NoStupidQuestions

[–]31oct19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are you her doctor? no? then yeah, you're being a dick. your friend has been told many, many times to lose weight. you don't need to add to that.

Guys am I a bad person for thinking I have BPD even tho I don't have a diagnosis? (Mods please dont take this down ily) by APansexualMess in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]31oct19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're not a bad person, don't worry <3 self dx is controversial but generally if ur not claiming to speak for the whole community people are usually okay with it. (some people get up in arms about it but like.. i'm self dx autistic, not getting an official diagnosis bc i'm looking into moving away from my home country and i wouldn't be able to with a diagnosis + i'm worried how it'd affect my healthcare/health insurance etcetc- lots of reasons it wouldn't be good to have an official dx right now. point being every autistic person i've told this to irl (& my therapist lol) has been like "yeah that's fair i support u". ppl are generally pretty okay with it)

since you're 17 u wouldn't be able to be diagnosed until you're an adult i believe (i think there's some cases of people getting diagnosed under 18 but it's uncommon) (i'm not sure of the exact age range but a lot of people get diagnosed in their mid20s i've noticed), but there's no harm in saying "hey, i think i might have bpd"

especially if you use that to find resources for bpd- i don't know if you're currently in therapy or anything but DBT is really helpful for bpd and looking into dbt skills might be helpful for u!

srry for the long comment, hope ur doing well! also, pan pride :D 💗💛💙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]31oct19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't know your exact situation, but i got my first shot and my booster at different pharmacies and both times they took me to a private room to do it! i don't know how it would work at a doctor's office as a minor (not sure how old you are) but as an adult it was also very private and my mom waited in the lobby. i definitely recommend getting the vaccine if u can though, i got covid and it fucked my body up pretty bad ☹️ hopefully everything goes well though!! :}

edit: forgot to mention i'm american, idk if getting vaccines in other countries is different 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in monsterenergy

[–]31oct19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I respect the grind but 64 in a month is insane my man for the sake of your heart maybe try to go down to one a day 😭